How should parents write their children's educational experience, which is more standardized and standard? According to many years' experience in secretarial writing and referring to excellent samples of parents' experience in educating their children, you can get twice the result with half the effort. The following is a selection of three experiences of parent education for your reference.
Parents' experience in educating their children 1
Most parents may feel relaxed when sending their children to boarding school. In fact, children entering boarding schools means that part of the task of educating children falls on the shoulders of schools and teachers. Parents should also be soberly aware that no matter how good the conditions are and the quality of teaching is, schools only share part of the responsibility for educating their children, not all. Therefore, family education and school education need a good connection. Parents and teachers actively cooperate and jointly undertake the task of educating children.
There are also many parents who think that children are born with support, so many people leave their children with grandparents and other elders or even nannies. Personally, I think this is also an inappropriate practice.
Educating children is a science, and it is extremely irresponsible to push children to others. There is nothing bigger than a child. In a small way, it is related to a child's life, and in a big way, it is related to the future of a country. It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. Good behavior habits and the cultivation of various abilities will benefit children for life. "Three-year-old children are small, and seven-year-old children are big." As a parent of a child, I will talk about the education of children from my personal experience.
1, in primary school, many people think that the knowledge of this primary school is so simple! Do you still need psychological counseling? In fact, this view is quite wrong. There is a big sister in our unit. She used to teach and was the principal of a primary school, but now she has changed careers and stopped teaching. She is very good at educating children and has accumulated a lot of valuable experience in educating children. Her children have always been excellent in academic performance from primary school to university, and they are excellent in all aspects. Xiaoshengchu was admitted to a key middle school in Chengdu because of his excellent grades, and he took it every year for three years in junior high school. After reading junior high school, she won a total of 60,000 to 70,000 scholarships, which was envied by the whole unit. Now all her children have gone to Australia to study. Everyone asked her how you were educated! With such a good education? She smiled and said, "Educating children is actually the most important thing in primary schools. At this stage, it is necessary to guide the dolls well, cultivate them to have good study habits and master good learning methods. "
To cultivate study habits and learning ability, we should learn to abide by discipline and get along well with our classmates. At this time, the child's knowledge in all aspects is limited, and some topics are incomprehensible. At this time, as parents, we should pull them out in time and develop good study habits. Some children seem to study while playing all day, but the learning effect is particularly poor. This habit is not good. Our children usually come back on Saturday, Sunday or winter and summer vacations to ask her about her homework, and then make plans and set a time with her. If she finishes ahead of schedule, she will get an appropriate reward, otherwise she will be punished. As a result, she developed a good habit of concentrating on her studies and had a sense of time. I often tell her to study hard and have fun, so that she can play more with the time you save. She also tasted the sweetness, and now she has consciously formed a habit. According to different classes, there are different learning methods: making learning plans, previewing before class, reviewing after class, especially mathematics, summarizing more and summarizing more, practicing questions appropriately, so as to draw inferences from one another.
2. Take appreciation education, encourage and praise more. Be good at discovering children's advantages, praise and encourage them in time, which will form a benign stimulus and protect his enthusiasm and interest in learning. Interest is the best teacher. As long as you are interested, why worry about not learning well? And many people, children are in high spirits when they get good grades, and scold or even punish them when they get bad grades. Many parents often say to their children, "Why are you so stupid?" ! If it's that simple, you're wrong. How good I was when I was your age. "At this rate, even the cleverest child will feel really stupid, lose interest in learning, lose confidence in himself, and break the jar. This vicious circle will lead children to lose confidence in life. This is not an alarmist. Many parents adopt simple, rude and high-handed educational methods, which will lead to emotional disharmony between mother and daughter, running away from home and even sowing hatred in their hearts. Don't TV news and focus interviews often report that _ _ _'s daughter ran away from home, and _ _ _'s son beat his mother to death himself? Although these children are at fault, aren't their parents at fault? Personally, I think these parents have problems at least in educating their children.
3. Pay attention to daily communication with children and help them overcome their shortcomings. We don't mean to raise our children, but the necessary care and education are not omitted. The first is to learn how to communicate with each other, how to cultivate the feelings between mother and daughter, and how to talk to her like friends. You don't have to talk big. Children are growing up and like to listen to happy things. Unhappy things can cause disgust and even alienate you, making it impossible for you to communicate. This is very important. I think if my children like me, get close to me and even worship me, this is the first step to success. It's not impossible to tell her some truth once in a while, but the truth should be easy to understand. In addition, after children get along with their parents, they will naturally ask many questions for their parents to answer. If you have anything to answer, parents must answer it seriously and can't just deal with it. If you disappoint your child, she will ask fewer questions and lose trust in you, which is not conducive to communication. Although our children are attending a boarding school now, we still insist on talking to our children once every night, so as to grasp the situation of our children in school one day and let her talk about the strengths and weaknesses of her classmates and the areas that need improvement. In view of her bad habit of eating slowly, we will try our best to cultivate her habit of doing things quickly and explain to her that only by doing our own things well as soon as possible can we have time to play or learn other things.
4. Don't get angry with children easily. We feel that we are often angry with children. There will be two outcomes. First, she's used to it and thinks it's no big deal that you're angry. Second, she will be afraid of you because she is timid, which will make her flinch from you. If she is often angry, she will report good news instead of worries, and parents will not know the real situation of their children, so education will be passive. Educating children is a complex systematic project, which can only be done slowly.
5. Maintain children's self-esteem. Parents take their children to some social activities, hoping to hear compliments from others. When children are disobedient or pestering their parents, or even doing something wrong, some parents immediately get serious for their own face. There is an embarrassing situation: parents teach their children with expressions, and children are naughty, turning a blind eye and turning a deaf ear. In the end, the two sides were deadlocked, and parents chose to solve the problem by force in order to safeguard their dignity. In the end: parents lose face, children's self-esteem is damaged, and guests break up in discord. Let's calm down and think about it: preschool education in this special situation should be artistic and euphemistic. Parents "bow their heads" and whisper a few words to their children as a reminder. Then divert the child's attention and lead the child's attention to other places. In this way, children's self-esteem is gained and parents' vanity is satisfied. There is a saying: a man teaches his son in front of him and talks about his wife behind his back. However, I think we should also educate our children behind their backs and safeguard their self-esteem.
6. Strengthen communication and contact with class teachers and teachers at ordinary times. It is even more important to educate children in boarding schools. Parents should take the initiative to introduce their children to the class teacher. For example, at the beginning of school, we emphasized to the class teacher that children are timid and need the care of teachers. After that, I often send text messages to the class teacher and the teacher to understand the situation, and report the child's little progress to the class teacher and the teacher to facilitate timely communication with the class teacher. A teacher's ability depends not only on her teaching quality, but also on how she teaches her children to be human and how she communicates with students and parents. Parents are very important and teachers are the key to the smooth growth of children. In the fourth grade of primary school, children have made great progress, and they can raise their hands consciously and actively, and their voices have become louder. Through the training of the head teacher, the children become confident and cheerful, and they also have many close friends at school. In this regard, as a parent, I feel very gratified.
7. Parents educate their children to have harmonious views and less disputes. We should fully respect children's nature and ensure that children have enough time to play and relax and do what they like. Sometimes we join in and play with our daughter. When educating children, one of us acts as the red face and the other as the white face, and we keep the same point of view when educating children.
All right! Anyway, the above is my family's experience in the process of educating children, and there must be many shortcomings. In the days to come, we will also learn and teach, explore in practice and make continuous progress in learning. In short, children's education should not be sloppy. Different children have different educational methods and teach students in accordance with their aptitude.
Parents' experience in educating their children II.
Successful examples of family education through the ages tell us that parents are the first teachers of children, and the success of children in adulthood is largely influenced by parents. Therefore, parents must pay great attention to their words and deeds and pay great attention to the education and guidance of their children. Like most parents, I want my children to do something when they grow up.
Our Sun Yue is in the third grade this year. Since entering school, with the help of teachers and schools, he quickly adapted to school life, gradually developed good study habits and became a qualified primary school student. More than three years have passed, and my biggest feeling is that a good family learning environment has created good study habits for children. And if a person has a good habit, it will benefit people for life.
First, family education should start with word teaching.
Parents like reading books and forget their work, which have left six impressions on their children. It also plays a subtle role in them. Treat children's learning,
You can't just talk without doing it. Parents should do well first. Nowadays, there are many ways for children to contact information, and the amount of information is also very large. Yes, the yamen asked.
It's hard to avoid stumping adults. Adults can't do without studying. So we will often buy books and read books. When you read a book, children will naturally watch it next to you, and sometimes children will ask some common-sense questions when they go to exercise. This not only exercises the body but also satisfies the children's thirst for knowledge, killing two birds with one stone. We ask our children to do things seriously. After the child finishes his homework, we will help him check and find that his handwriting is scrawled, and we will let her erase it. Sometimes, he can't bear to part with it, but he can't be soft-hearted. He must remember that if he doesn't do it well the first time, he must make more efforts. Therefore, we must do things seriously and try to do more.
Second, you can't like everything too much, but you can't let it go.
Nowadays, parents know that they can't spoil their children too much, and they can't give them whatever they want to meet their requirements. This will easily make children self-discipline in behavior, which will eventually lead to poor self-control, lack of self-motivation, and lack of courage and interest in overcoming difficulties. The child likes singing and dancing very much, and also has the talent of writing, so we created conditions for him to dance. I remember he cried when he first learned, because learning to dance was a very hard thing. The next day, he felt sore all over, and it hurt to raise his hand. I asked him if he still wanted to learn, and he said he would, and if he wanted to do a great physical exercise, he would succeed. It took a long time this time. I watched him sweat profusely and practiced every movement the teacher taught me. It hurts to see it in your eyes. If he succeeds in every move, I will cheer him up. The children are getting worse and worse, and the children are much younger. I said, dad, I made it! Looking at the bright smile of the child, I am proud of him from the bottom of my heart. Yue Yue likes toys very much. There are many toys at home. I'm going to school now. If he likes it very much, I'll set him a goal, and he can buy it if he finishes it well. This can stimulate his interest in learning and get rid of some bad habits. The child's schoolbag is arranged by himself. After he goes to bed, I sometimes check whether it is clean and tidy, and whether the school supplies are complete. If there is enough, I will help him put it in. I'll remind him afterwards. As the child grows up, we will let him do some small things in life. Sometimes help adults do what they can. We want him to understand that he should not only read good books, but also learn to live and care for everyone.
Third, expectations should not be too high, but they should be strict.
Parents want their children to succeed, and we share this mentality, but we won't force her to learn what he doesn't like. He likes painting very much.
From a few years old to many years now, he not only has no interest, but regards it as an inseparable part of life. This is his naive idea.
The best place to publicize is the animals, flowers and trees painted by children. They have different ideas, flexible expressions and clear meanings. I will have a kind of happiness. My idea is that it is enough for children to do what they like and be a person with a wide range of hobbies, who works hard and is useful to society.
Fourth, actively cooperate with teachers' teaching activities and study with children.
If the teacher assigns homework that needs parents' cooperation, I will do it with my children seriously. Those who need to read books will read them, and the materials that need to be collected or downloaded online will be completed on time. If my daughter wants to make a handwritten newspaper, I will go online to help her collect information, design the layout with her and accompany her to finish it. The school's scholarly campus activities allow parents and children to study together. I put a book at the bedside every day, and the children follow me. Before going to bed, our mother and daughter read books together for a while. Since then, Jia Changyi has developed a good habit of loving reading. Every morning during the summer vacation, my daughter and I went to Dahua Park with a copy of 100 adult story. On the top of the mountain, I read a famous story to my daughter before going home.
Fifth, cultivate in many ways to increase children's self-confidence.
I have taught my child to dance since she was four years old, not to make her grow up to be a dancer, but to cultivate her temperament. Children like Tu Tu's paintings since childhood, so we prepared watercolor pens, oil pastels, colored lead and picture books for her, bought books related to painting, and enrolled her in an art painting class. She began to learn electronic piano when she was six years old. Last year, she wanted to learn piano very much, so I found a piano teacher for her and bought a piano for her to keep at home. Jia Changyu has many opportunities to show his talents through various trainings. When the school held a talent competition, she submitted six projects and won prizes, which made her more confident and more energetic in learning.
Good behavior habits can't be developed overnight. As long as we have patience, perseverance and perseverance. We believe that every child can shine his brightest light.
Parents' experience in educating their children 3
When it comes to educating children, every parent is filled with emotion. I am no exception. Over the years, I feel that children's family education is very important in teaching and educating people. Today, as a teacher and a parent, I want to share with you my personal views on educating children.
First, love children.
Teachers should love their students and parents should love their children. Maybe you will say that this truth is simple enough. Which parent doesn't love their children? But some parents' love can't be accepted and recognized by children. I often give my naughty son a kind hug, a shallow smile, persuasive persuasion and a small gift. This will make the child naturally feel the love given by his parents and enhance his trust in his parents. Therefore, teachers and parents should use love to cultivate children's good behavior habits.
Second, learn to respect children and listen to their voices.
Parents should put down their condescending attitude, learn to communicate with their children on an equal footing, and calm down and listen to everything their children have to say. Even if you are busy and tired at this time, you should listen attentively and ask your child from time to time: "Is there anything interesting in school?" Are you satisfied with your performance in class? Did your smiling face increase again today? " Whenever I ask my son this question, he is always excited to report everything to me. When he expresses his views on things, I will also respect his opinions, discuss with him and give him enough confidence and self-confidence. I think this is very important for cultivating children's character.
Third, encourage children to dare to meet challenges.
Today's era is an era of fierce competition, so it is necessary to cultivate children's sense of competition and the spirit of daring to meet challenges from an early age. I often encourage my son to say, "You are great and so smart. You can answer such difficult knowledge correctly. Mom admires you! " "He was flattered when you listen. He always thinks positively about problems and stimulates his enthusiasm for learning. During holidays, I encourage my children to take part in extracurricular activities. When he was in trouble, I kept cheering him up. At this time, I will work hard with my child to infect him with practical actions and achieve the purpose of moral education.
Fourth, be good at discovering and cultivating children's interests.
Einstein said, "Interest is the best teacher." Only by starting from interest can children enjoy learning. At present, there is a strange phenomenon in society, that is, at a very young age, most children have to learn a lot of knowledge, and many parents will not consider the learning effect of their children. It seems that the more they learn, the closer they get to success, whether their children want to learn or not, resulting in a waste of money, energy and innocent happy time. Therefore, I hope that parents can capture their children's interests from their daily life and study, guide them, and then let their interests heat up and burn. Only in this way can we get the best results.
A famous educator put it well: "The fate of a country is in the hands of parents rather than rulers." The education and cultivation of children is a very complicated science. Let our parents, teachers and schools cooperate to cultivate more outstanding talents.