Economically and spiritually independent, they have a clear understanding of their own advantages and disadvantages.
Taboos have a strong sense of social boundaries and high emotional perception.
Emotionally stable, able to look at people and things around you rationally, and will not easily fall into emotional traps.
Keep improving, and be good at polishing yourself carefully in a certain field.
Ambitious, unwilling to accept fate, content with the status quo.
In the face of unhealthy intimacy, it is forbidden to pull away at any time and not to drag your feet.
Dare to break the stereotype in others' eyes and be yourself bravely.
It is forbidden to be transparent and relaxed, be self-disciplined and sober, and be able to accept the occurrence of all unknown things.
① Establishing self-boundary: Establishing a clear self-boundary is the premise of living a sober self. Lack of self-boundary, like to see the needs and feelings of others more important than themselves. Therefore, we should always respect our feelings, jump out of the mode of "I am wronged" and "I am tolerant" and defend our borders with actions.
Unclear boundaries: I don't know how to refuse because I please others. Too much love and selflessness. Excessive sharing and dependence.
Book Guide: In this book, psychologist George Dade introduces the relationship between self-strength and emotional release through the structure and organization of the brain. On the other hand, with the support of boundary theory, combined with psychological knowledge and free practice, the class helps readers to let go of the pressure and emotional fluctuations caused by unclear boundaries and gain the ability to be independent of others.
2 Constant self-improvement: When you are vacillating and influenced by others, the heartless girl has been focusing on self-improvement and constantly breaking through the comfort zone.
Picture multiple-choice question+concept word definition, test the mode of breaking through the barrier, and explain it in simple terms. After learning a concept word, there is a code summary, and the meaning of each code is clearly marked.
3 reduce mental internal friction: don't regret the past, don't worry about the future, just live in the present. Every difficult advance is a proof of your transformation. Take a good bath, protect your skin, sleep and open your eyes. It's a brand-new day.
Books lead the way: the courage to be hated, the road few people take, the world 100 cases.
5 girls can have no brains, but they must have no brains. In the law of the jungle world, women like to bully the white rabbit instead of howling at the wolf.
"I'm not teaching you to cheat, I'm teaching you to see the world clearly"-Liu Yong.
Do you know: Sheng is humble and easy-going. She looks harmless and soft, but she is actually sober, good at pretending and playing the fool. This is her armor for counterattack step by step.
TV series: Do you know? The queen in the palace only longs for love and freedom. Li Yinhe's legend of Mi Yue and the story of Yan Xi Palace.
This book points out the direction: life is up to me; Meyer Musk; Mob; Gustave Le Bon; Go to the edge of life; Jiang Yang.
⑥ It's not easy to be sharp-edged: wolves are patient, and when the time is ripe, they will shoot quickly, and so will ruthless girls. Lin, as the wolf said, "The lower the profile, the more dangerous it is, and the more toothless people are, the easier it is to deal with.
Should the label of a girl be sensible, gentle and clever? No, girls should live their own lives, sober and independent.
Wolf girl is often ambitious. They are often unwilling to give in to others and do not show their edge, which does not mean that they have no ambition.
They only temporarily raised their ambitions, and when the right opportunity came, they took the initiative to show their abilities.
Documentary Guide: Female Justice Ginsburg ·RBG》9.4 She said, a moment in a woman's life 9.3 American Lady 8.7 Girl on the Roof 8. 1.