1. Control desire: People who like to reason with others may think that they have more correct opinions or judgments than others, so they hope to control the situation by persuading or controlling others.
2. Sense of superiority: Some people may feel that they are in a comparative advantage position because of IQ or life experience. They may think that their opinions are reliable and need to use their knowledge to guide others.
3. Self-affirmation: By reasoning with others, some people can gain a sense of self-affirmation and think that their views have been recognized and accepted by others.
4. Caring for others: Some people may want to provide useful advice and guidance for others from the perspective of caring for others.
No matter what kind of psychology is behind it, excessive reasoning will affect interpersonal relationships and make people feel educated and criticized, lacking mutual understanding and empathy. Therefore, when communicating, we should pay attention to the equality and respect of both sides, respect the opinions of others, listen to each other's stories, and try our best to create an atmosphere of trust and understanding.