As far as educating children is concerned, different situations often lead to different results, and each parent has his own unique way. Therefore, we can see that different family education effects will reflect different personalities and three views on children. The reason why many children are more successful shows that they have good qualities since childhood. I have to say that this is inseparable from the correct educational methods of parents. In recent years, we have seen many parents strongly advocate? Delayed gratification? Many parents apply this educational method to their children.

So-called? Delayed gratification? In fact, it is a psychological concept, which we usually call. Patience and moderation? . Generally speaking, it is to gain more long-term interests, suppress one's own desires, and give up short-term interests. Delayed gratification is usually a manifestation of a person's psychological maturity and an important part of emotional intelligence. It is found that timely satisfaction is closely related to the emotional center in the human brain, and? Delayed gratification? It is controlled by abstract reasoning ability. In order to prove the influence of delayed gratification education on children, someone once did a famous experiment called? Cotton candy experiment? !

The content of this experiment is to let dozens of children stay in a room with candy, and then the experimenter tells the children that candy in this room can be eaten at any time, but if they can wait until they come back, who can get more candy! A considerable number of these children were impatient and began to eat candy before the experimenter came back. Meanwhile, some children didn't start eating until the experimenter came back. Later, the experimenter followed up these children and found that the children who didn't start eating candy until the experimenter came back performed better in learning and interpersonal relationships, which showed the great role of delaying gratification. Therefore, if you want your children to be excellent in study, successful in career and happy in life, parents should use them correctly as soon as possible? Delayed gratification? Educational methods, because its benefits can not be ignored.