I know that "parent-child companionship" is not a new concept for novice parents, and more and more parents are consciously practicing it. After work, spend more time with your children and communicate more. After all, high-quality parent-child companionship can not only promote mutual trust and interdependence between parents and children, but also play an important role in children's intellectual development.
However, how many "parent-child companionship" are of high quality? I found that it seems that many parents have gone astray in this respect. Playing mobile phones, watching TV and playing games with children ... the word "accompany" has been done, but it has no auxiliary effect on children's growth.
High quality parent-child companionship,
It is the best nutrition for children's growth.
Chen Anke, a 5-year-old girl, shocked the audience by performing a piano show on the stage of the second season of NBC's Little Talent Show. Her optimism infected the audience and quickly swept the American network.
However, Chen Anke, a 5-year-old China piano prodigy, became popular in the United States not by accident, but by necessity.
It's a real treat to watch her play the piano. Her performance is not dull, but she focuses on every key, and every note from generate is full of emotion.
Many people admire not only her superb piano skills beyond her peers, but also her cheerful playing state and innocent smile.
Chen Anke began to learn piano at the age of 3, and practiced piano at home for 4 hours every day. Diligence is definitely the most important thing, but it is also inseparable from the encouragement and companionship of parents.
Her parents are not music majors, but on their way to learn the piano, they have paid a lot, accompanying their children to practice the piano, taking them to class, attending concerts, master classes, learning music literacy and so on. A child is like a sapling. What nutrition you give her, she will grow naturally.
The best education always comes from the family.
I still remember that the 6-year-old prodigy in Tianjin, who was very popular before, could casually throw out a long sentence with four books and five classics. He can not only recite the classics of Chinese studies, but also learn them vividly, which makes the host admire and admit that he is "uneducated"
Her mother is a vocal music teacher. She listened to music all day when she was pregnant, and listened to a lot of classical music and world famous songs during prenatal education.
At the age of three, her mother began to guide her to read classic books. Her mother said:
"She was reading the rhythmic Dai Li Weng Dou Yun when she was very young, and we read it like a game. When I said "heaven is to the earth", she replied "rain is to the wind". Like to play, she likes it very much. After reading this, she likes a series. "
Because, with the excellent companionship of parents, every child plays middle school and learns something.
In addition to high-quality companionship,
Parents' choice is also very important.
Both Chen Anke, a 5-year-old piano prodigy, and Li Shangrong, a 6-year-old talented girl in Tianjin, have an ability that their parents will not fall behind.
At the scene of Little Talent Show, Chen Anke seamlessly connected the dialogue between the host and the translator. When it comes to the piano, he will ask the translator, "Didn't you say what I said? Isn't the piano a piano?" Why not say piano? ".By the way, the little girl who acts as an interpreter is only 12 years old!
Li Shangrong, a talented young woman, gave her mother an English song "Proud of You" on the stage of "Starting for Happiness", thanking her for her cultivation.
Why are they all learning English? Because their parents know a truth: English can make their children go further in the future!
Everyone understands what you said, but let children learn English well, two words: difficult!
I mean, it's not that hard.
Again: Parents' companionship and choice are very important!