Many persistent and disobedient children are indulged and used by adults. When you are one or two years old, you can do whatever you want when you see them. For example, if he (she) wants to sit on the table, he (she) will cry if he (she) doesn't give it, so he (she) thinks he (she) is too young to listen. Until the age of four or five, I have to go out to play and buy everything. Cry if you don't buy it, and roll on the ground until you buy it. It is natural to get used to it again and again. Children should not have such bad habits when they are young. If you cry, leave him alone and get up from the ground. No one is afraid of losing face. It is useless for children to say anything when they lose their temper, unless they can conform to their rules.

Therefore, we should educate and reason one by one until they calm down and patiently help their children change gradually when they are still young. If you are educated when you grow up, that's what people often say. It's useless to straighten the buffalo horn. Analyze the reasons. The key is that parents must master the reasons why their children are persistent and disobedient. Or like playing games, or like some other things. Children's world has always been colorful, and the summary of persistence and disobedience comes from the inconsistency with parents' ideas. Parents consider from the child's point of view, what are the real needs of children?

In the case of meeting the standards of a small number of children, it is the right way to guide the children's house in the right direction. Nowadays, most of the education for children at home is mobile culture education. I once read in the newspaper that when it rained, foreign fathers took their children home in the rain. China's father left his umbrella to his children, but he was soaked to the skin. As a result, I like it the same, but in different ways. Our parents' love for their children in China is silent, unknown and unrequited, which also reflects a problem. Children are so dependent on their parents that they even think this kind of love should exist.

However, the education given to children by foreign parents is an open cultural education. Their love may not be as obscure as our parents, but it is obviously an exercise for children. So what I need to say is that although there are reasons for children's persistent disobedience, parents must analyze the reasons and start from the root causes. Take some effective measures. Children are disobedient because they love to play, so they should increase certain requirements for their children under the condition of moderate standards. Perhaps, he thinks he can perform this daily task, and he can play after doing it. Older children, it can be said that some children are very persistent and disobedient when they enter adolescence. At this moment, parents must not quarrel with their children, and must solve the difficulties rationally on the premise of understanding their children. Family meetings must be held regularly to analyze previous practices and consider future plans.