The word "good family" first appeared in Shi Shuo Xin Yu: Mrs. Wang has a loose appearance, which is why she has it. The atmosphere under the forest, caring for the family, is a beautiful boudoir.
In the eyes of the ancients, the real good family refers to the cultural gentry handed down from Confucianism. However, with the change of dynasties, the real identity no longer exists, and gradually evolved into a "good family" of women with both talent and appearance and good conduct in aristocratic families. Such a woman is rich but not flattering, expensive but not proud.
"Little Jasper" comes from "Song of Lover Jasper": Jasper is a little girl and dare not climb your virtue. Feeling a thousand dollars, the whole city is ashamed. Xiaojiabiyu pointed out that she was poor, but she also had no worries about food and clothing. The so-called Xiuer is not flattering, cold but not vulgar.
A good family and a small family, Jasper, have been two different women since ancient times. The so-called beautiful future is beautiful, and pleasing to the eye is beautiful. The beauty of this country is amazing.
family background
A good family must come from a noble family, and such a family has social resources that can't be compared with ordinary families. Noble families are not only rich, but only such a family background can edify a suitable family.
Xiaojiabiyu, just from a small family, has no social resources and does not worry about her livelihood.
cultural education
Everyone is well-educated, pays more attention to family style and ethics, and has been strictly bound since childhood, paying attention to guarding the front door and the second door, behaving dignified, smiling and so on. Their cultural education is also the best. They have a large collection of books from a small family, and they have a strong faculty. Therefore, the cultural education of a good family can be described as a teacher who makes a teacher.
Xiao Jia Jasper has been taught by private school teachers since childhood, but the bibliography is limited, and most of them are public, so the knowledge is limited and not so wide.
Different temperament
Influenced by family since childhood, those with good family circumstances look noble and elegant. In addition, the occasions in and out are all so-called upper class, and they have seen a lot of the world. They are natural and elegant, virtuous and have everyone's demeanor.
Xiaojiabiyu, like my sister next door when I was a child, is very cute. The so-called Zhi Tao is as beautiful as three spring days and as simple as nine autumn chrysanthemums.
The calm temperament cultivated by a good family from an early age is intangible and elusive. Xiao Jia Biyu is quiet and full of shyness when she smiles.
As can be seen from the above aspects, there are many rules of aristocratic families, which cultivate the generous and decent demeanor of everyone in and out of the family. Jasper, who comes from a small family, does not have so many constraints, and her life is naturally pure.
In the feudal society that pays attention to family status, good families often marry princes and nobles, become good wives and mothers, and educate their children. Xiao Jia Jasper's fate is not so particular. No matter ordinary people or businessmen and celebrities, parents just want them to be safe and worry-free all their lives.
As for which is cuter, it depends on everyone's aesthetic and judgment standards.