1, calm down, when a rebellious child is rebellious and disobedient, parents should not rush to stop or fight back, but should keep silent first. You know, silence is a severe reprimand to children. As long as the child doesn't hurt others, including himself, parents let her vent for a while and give him enough time. You don't even need to reason with your child, because the rebellious child actually knows everything, and she just shows it to you on purpose. The calmer you are, the more boring she will be, and she won't rush out of her own small universe next time.

2, don't always use the tone of disappointment to stimulate children, sometimes children will make some rebellious behavior, parents will say something disappointed and put some labels on their children. For example, the child is a helpless bastard, a useless thing, disappointed in you and doesn't want you at all. These words may be parents' temporary anger, but they will hurt their children's hearts. Because children can't see their parents' true love, they only see their parents' negative emotions. Therefore, when the child is rebellious, you just need to accompany her and talk less.

3, don't let go, some parents let go of the girl's rebellion, which is called doting, and it doesn't matter if the child vents. Such parents are actually more harmful to children, because 10-year-old girls can't tell what is right and wrong at this time and need parents to guide them. Parents should learn to communicate with their children and look for suitable opportunities. When the child is in a good mood and no outsiders are present, tell the child from the heart that the child can actually feel it.

4. Respect children and talk less about the tone of command. Children in rebellious period are more sensitive. Parents can communicate with them more and use affirmative sentences when speaking, so that children can feel their parents' respect for them.