The word "husband is a saint, wife is a sage" has been searched in various idiom dictionaries, but it is not recorded. Baidu search is still not included. In the genealogy of Zhan's family in Qianlong, Daoguang, Guangxu and the Republic of China, the family pattern of more than 2,000 years ago appeared, and the "good wife and husband" appeared for the first time, which was used to praise the great achievements and loyal love of Dr. Lu, the sage and his wife Jiang's family in the Spring and Autumn Period. In Zhan's genealogy and genealogy, Sun Zhanrui of 10 generation has such a record: "Rui, the word is blessed with pictures, worships martyrs, is self-sustaining, sings praises, and hangs down as a family model, which has nothing to do with lineage from beginning to end." He said,' See the public off and live in Lu Daofan. The husband is a saint and the wife is a sage. If not, the boudoir door can be mortgaged. Cending Ming Xin, boarded the rock wall. This book is three? Admire in power. I was ordered to be a teacher, and my neighbors believed me. Zang Xian stole the throne and was ridiculed by Kong Shi. Three fairs are not easy, Meng Te-jie. Wind master is immortal, who will inherit it? Children and grandchildren should dive and play. Zhan Rui's Family Style is concise, with only 80 words, which highly summarizes the lofty virtues of the ancestor Liu Xiahui.

Zhan's genealogy was first compiled by the eighth generation Sun Zhanmai. Genealogy records: "Wheat, many words, do not seek success, the potential of Rui, back to the first virtue, create a pedigree, hanging behind." Sun Zhanrui, the son of Zhan Mai, continued to study genealogy and wrote Letters from Home, which made the genealogy more complete. There are both genealogy and family precepts, which are passed down from generation to generation to educate future generations. Zhan's "Family Instructions" praised the ancestors with "the husband is a saint and the wife is a sage", which is well deserved. The first two sentences in "Family Pattern" are: "Paiyan Zhou Gong lives in Lu Daofan", which explains Liu Xiahui's family background and family style. After Duke Zhou, the Zhan family admired Lu's "Taoist model". "Family Model" then describes: "The husband is a saint, the wife is a sage, and it is a deep source. If not, the boudoir door can be mortgaged. Cending Ming Xin, boarded the rock wall. This book is three? Admire in power. I was ordered to be a teacher, and my neighbors believed it. " , summarizes the main deeds of ancestor Liu Xiahui. "Every good thief, Kong Shi despised. This is not easy for Sangong, and Meng's Special Solution, with the evaluation of Confucius and Mencius, fully affirmed his noble character. The last four sentences are "the wind master is immortal, who will inherit it?" Children and grandchildren should dive and play. "It is an unshirkable responsibility for future generations to continue the cause of their ancestors.

There are many allusions in Family Instructions, such as "three don't go", "Cending is faithful", "being ordered to resign as a teacher" and "hiding morality and stealing a position". Due to space reasons, I don't want to go into details here. Below, I will make an in-depth interpretation of "the husband is a saint and the wife is a sage", so that readers can better understand the touching love and career of Mr. and Mrs. Liu Xiahui. In history, both husband and wife have become saints and sages, and it is rare to live long. Liu Xiahui lived to be a hundred years old. According to the private marriage system, his disciples had to make an appointment for her husband. Seeing that his disciples had been thinking and thinking for a while, Jiang, a good wife, couldn't make a decision, so she said, "You boys, let me know your husband, and I'll decide!" So she wrote an article "Obituary" as a blessing to her husband. Because Zhan Qin ate Liu Xia in his later years, he was called Liu Xiahui.

Liu Han gave the biography of the fierce woman? Sage? Liu Xiahui's wife has this record: so does the wife of Dr. Liu Lu Xia Hui. Liu Xiahui is in Shandong, but he refuses to go, fearing for the people and saving the chaos. The wife said, "Nothing is blasphemy! A gentleman has two disgraces. The country has no way and is expensive, and it is shameful; It is shameful to have a state-owned road. It is almost a shame not to go in troubled times. " Liu Xiahui said, "People who are rich in oil will be in trouble. I can't do anything! And he did it for him and I did it for me. Although he is naked, he can pollute me! " Oil seems to be in harmony with the place, and the official is in a lower position. Liu Xia is dead, and his master will cheat him. The wife said, "You believe in your master's virtue. The second son and the third son won't know more than my aunt." It means: "The master does not cut, the master is inexhaustible, the master is sincere but not harmful, soft and obedient, defensive but not strong, humiliating and saving the people, and great virtue." Although he encountered three evils, he would never hide it. He is a gentleman and can always be ruthless and cherish. It's next life. The master followed it, thinking that he could not leap a word. The gentleman said that Liu Xiahui's wife can put up with her husband. The poem says, "People know one thing and nothing else. "This is also called. Ode: Xia Hui's wife is smart and educated. After Liu Xia's death, the master will live. It is impossible to entrust her words to Xia Hui and display her works. "

The general meaning of this ancient prose is as follows: Liu Xiahui's wife said to her husband, what could be more frustrating than this? I heard that gentlemen despise two things. First, the country is ignorant and helpless, but it helps others abuse their power for a while and gain power for a while; The other is that the country is politically honest and harmonious, but it is lazy and poor all its life. Now the state of Lu is fatuous, and you have been deposed many times, but you are still infatuated, which is simply shameful. Liu Xiahui said: People are living in dire straits. How can I stay out of it? Turbidity is self-turbid, and clarity is self-clear. I won't be defiled by this vat. Zhan Qin wrote such a passage to express his heart. He wrote: "drums, a hundred herbs applied to Wei, I don't know its luxury;" In the first frost and autumn, a hundred herbs are scattered, and I don't know if they are withered. It is not the sorrows and joys of the four seasons that wither. Honor or disgrace is my heart? "

Zhan's genealogy records the story of "sitting open", which is different from the traditional view. Restore genealogy records to specific people, time, place, object, plot, evaluation, etc. And the credibility is higher, which further shows that Liu Xiahui's "sit-in" is not a beautiful legend, but a true story-Liu Xiahui's noble virtues of compassion, kindness and helping others, which is worthy of being a moral model of "loyalty and stubbornness, being a teacher through the ages"! Genealogy records: "Huan Gong was sixteen years old, and Yi You was twenty-five years old. On June 18, he tried to walk to the east slope of Xianqiu City alone and sat under a shelter in the rain. There was a young woman, Wen Qu Shi Ying. She looked around for shelter from the rain and invited him to sit with her. A woman has to sit in her arms, and she doesn't care. In this case, honesty is not the only way to stop it, but it will be cheaper than a woman's money, so it is based on honesty. Sincerity is stubborn and timid, and it is also a teacher of eternal life. "

According to genealogy and chronology, in 70 BC1year, in eleven years, Bird was twenty years old and married his wife Jiang. According to research, Liu Xiahui was 25 years old in the 16th year of Huan Gong (696 BC). According to Chronicle of Saints and Chronicle of Saints, Liu Xiahui married his wife Chiang Kai-shek in 70 1 year BC, at the age of 20. This story happened five years after Liu Xiahui got married. The location of the story is "Dongpo of Qiu Cheng". According to historical records: "Xianqiu, the name of ancient county, was a city in the state of Lu in the Spring and Autumn Period, and Xianqiu County was located in the northeast of Yanzhou in the Western Han Dynasty. Xing Fei Sui reset. " It can be seen that the "slope field on the east side of the defect hill" should be in Yanzhou today. According to Jiajing's Kaizhouzhi (Puyang, Henan), "The defective hill is eighteen miles south of the state, five feet high, fifteen feet vertical and horizontal, and a hill is attached to the west, three feet high." "Book of Rites on Bow" says: "Uncle started from the defective mountain and followed it late. Wen Zi said, "Qiu Si is happy! I want to be buried after I die. Yuan said, "If my son likes it, he will invite it." "

Liu Xiahui helped a "young woman" named "Wen Qu Shi Ying". Wen Qu is probably a place name or county name. "Shi Ying" is an ancient surname with a small population. According to "A Brief History of Tongzhi Clans", the English surname originated from Yan, and after Hao Tao, the ancient country was the surname, and Dayu gave it the surname. Now there are about 800 descendants of Ying in Xingguo Village, Shangye Town, Fei County, Linyi City, Shandong Province. According to genealogy records, they migrated from Yingjiatuan, Feixian County, Shandong Province to their present residence.

According to the Chronicle of the Sage and the Century of War History, he was appointed as a doctor and judge of Lu at the age of 29 and was deposed in the same year. At the age of 34, he was reused as a judge, and at the age of 36, he was detained. At forty, he became a judge, and at forty-one, he was dismissed. At the age of 49, he became a judge and was detained in the same year. According to records, after quitting Lu, he became a "master of Lu education". Liu Xiahui lived in Liuxia, a food city at the age of 85. Because of his high esteem, there are more and more tourists. At the age of 90, hundreds of people went to school formally, which was spectacular in the history of ancient education. This also created a historical miracle that he still engaged in private education after he was 90 years old. Liu Xiahui enjoys a centenary, and there are countless students. So far, Shi Zhongliang is one of the well-documented, well-known Liu Xiahui surname masters except his sons Zhan and Lu Nanzi. I think Liu Xiahui founded a private school, which reached its peak in his later years and influenced later generations. Liu Xiahui's academic and educational thoughts also deeply influenced Confucius and Mencius, who was born one or two hundred years later than him, which was strongly confirmed in Confucius and Mencius' works.

Liu Xiahui's husband and wife are virtuous, which can be said to be the ultimate in self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and leveling the world. Their families are harmonious, their husband and wife love each other, they share the same interests, and they run their families well, benefiting society and future generations. At the age of 54, he went to study in Shandong and founded Liuxia Bookstore, which has been in operation for half a century and has thousands of disciples. Liu Xiahui opened a private school, inherited Tang Yu, learned to open Confucius and Mencius, promoted Confucianism, and even had an influence on Laozi, Zhuangzi and his grandson. Liu Xiahui, called a saint by Confucius, was praised by Mencius, who promoted him to be a teacher of eternal life and the sum of saints. Liu Xiahui's success is inseparable from the woman behind him-wise wife Chiang Kai-shek. They are like-minded, their husbands sing along with their wives, and they are successful and radiant!