In two days, the words of President Tang, who has been teaching for more than 40 years, are well-known and show us the best appearance of education.

President Tang said, in his view:

It is far more important for kindergarten children to form the habit of sorting things than to let them read early.

It is far more important for children to read more books than to do reading comprehension questions.

We want to cultivate lifelong athletes, leaders, problem solvers and elegant lives.

After listening to this, parents must have found a new direction of education, ready to focus on cultivating children's cleaning, reading and sports, right?

Please wait a moment, calm down and savor. Do you really understand the meaning of education?

Let children see a clean home, family members who love reading and sports, and elders who are responsible for themselves and actively solve problems.

Most importantly, in children's eyes, their parents are live high, living an elegant example.

Parents are the soil for children to grow up.

Children are responsible for thriving, and parents are responsible for fertile land for raising children.

Children use what they already have at home before they learn.

For example, mother tongue, such as music, such as art, such as reading and writing, such as cleaning the room, tailoring and cooking, such as accompanying pets …

This kind of study is the choice after moistening things quietly, and the promotion after interest.

The growth of children is natural and brings its own light.

Gao Xiao's yearbook column, from Gao, 1969 0 years old, to Gao, 20 19 years old 50 years old.

His story will make you understand that everyone is of course branded with the times, but in the end they all grow up like a family.

In fact, what impressed me most was his cousin's story.

Almost several generations of Gaos thought graduated from Tsinghua, and only one cousin studied undergraduate and master's degree in a famous foreign university.

Whenever there is a school anniversary in Tsinghua, the whole family will come to a family reunion as alumni, and only this cousin feels a little lonely.

In order to make up for this regret, after working for many years, my cousin studied for a doctorate in Tsinghua, and realized her wish to attend family gatherings as an alumnus.

"How powerful Mr. Jin Yong's relatives are" was searched in Weibo for a long time.

From the pictures, we can see that Jiang Ying, Qian Xuesen, Qiong Yao and Xu Zhimo are all celebrities in various fields.

While netizens are amazed, they are all feeling that the birth of a cow is always inevitable and out of reach, and the gap lies in the family temperament of more than one generation behind him.

The stories of celebrities let us know that high-energy families can't cultivate low-energy mediocrity.

What is not available at home, no matter how hard children study, they may not be able to use it freely.

For example, parents with poor English can only study hard and practice hard, usually at home, and there is no language environment at all;

For example, parents who don't keep their promises, their children learn "honesty and trustworthiness", they only know these words, and they probably don't understand or believe them at all;

For example, parents who are anxious every day, children can't learn to be calm;

For example, in a chaotic family, children have never seen what an elegant life is.

Principal Gao said that what kindergarten dolls should learn most is the simplest "sorting things out".

But dear parents, don't try to teach children to clean up, let them clean up by themselves.

It is to create an environment for children to "want to organize" and let them know "what should I look like after I organize?"

Therefore, it is more important for parents of dolls to learn to "clean themselves up" first than to teach their children.

From finishing, learn to pay attention to yourself, the most important things and things, be responsible for everything, create a beautiful living environment for yourself and your family, free up your mood and space, exercise together, read together, and solve important problems together.

The way you "organize yourself" with your heart will be seen by the children.

Imitation is the nature of children, and the appearance of parents is the future direction of children.

Parents who have learned to "organize themselves" are still worried that their children will not "organize things"?

Raising children is the responsibility of parents, and lifelong growth is the unshirkable responsibility of parents.

The real starting point of children is never the school district, but the bookcase at home and the cognition of parents.

If you have any confusion on the way to learn "organize yourself", please leave me a message.

Kitten will accompany you to know yourself, live happily, and find your own elegant life by focusing on "sorting yourself out".

Then, appreciate the children gracefully and gradually grow into their own appearance in clean, happy and free soil.