1, comparison: guardianship education Most parents worry that their children will have no time to do homework and attend interest classes when they go out to play, that their children will develop "bad" habits when they play with friends, and that their children will be in danger when they go out to play ... Because of various seemingly irresistible objective reasons, many parents can't wait to put their children under their noses for 24 hours. However, some education experts have pointed out that children who grow up in this environment lack self-confidence and courage, and lack education in efforts and setbacks.
2. Experts suggest that "stocking" does not mean "laissez-faire". In fact, "stocking" is not uneducated. Some parents regard "stocking" as "laissez-faire", and are busy with work, career or part-time job to make money all day, providing only the guarantee of life for their children, regardless of their inner world. In modern society, families should try to avoid closed and isolated "captivity" and abandon unrestrained and laissez-faire "stocking", which will easily lead to children's lack of gregarious and cooperative spirit, and most likely to form "problem children". The key to correct "stocking" education is to cultivate their awareness of the rules of the game and guide them step by step.
3, companionship is the key to the success of stocking education. According to a survey, 50% fathers spend less than 5 hours with their children every week! Communicate effectively with children for no more than 6 minutes every day! Psychological research shows that preschool, children and teenagers need different communication and companionship at different stages of their children's growth, and neither father nor mother can be absent. Otherwise, it is not conducive to the formation and perfection of their personality.
4. One father is better than 100 principals. In fact, the value of parent-child companionship exceeds any education and training. It is not enough to give children material care. Sincere companionship and careful care are more important. The key words of parent-child companionship include interaction, respect, dialogue and understanding. The best companionship is spiritual companionship, and a good relationship based on close emotional connection should be established between father and son. Communicate and communicate through true and inner feelings, convey love, trust and security, and promote understanding, care and trust. In the process of children's growth, the intimate relationship between parents and children is more important than "correct" skills! The love and trust that spiritual companionship conveys to children will affect their life.
5. The investment with the highest rate of return is parent-child relationship. Any professional role can be replaced, but the role of parents is irreplaceable. Some people say that choosing a job is choosing a lifestyle. The struggle in the career makes people full of self-confidence and sense of accomplishment, but the absence in the family and the indifference between parents and children greatly reduce the beauty of life. In early childhood, parents are willing to "invest" in parent-child relationship, and children can get positive returns all their lives. Some people say that I work hard to make money, not only for this family, but also for children to live better and receive better education! However, is it worthwhile to exchange time for money in the workplace that should belong to yourself and your family?