Thank you for inviting me first. I am Yan from Wudaokou. I have a daughter, surrounded by many high-level people. I have my own thoughts and understanding about education, but I don't think it is particularly good to say about Li Xiangfu's educational concept of raising his daughter.

Let me start by saying why I can't comment. First of all, the economic conditions of Li Xiang and I are much worse, so we can't guess her economic conditions and consumption level by my economic conditions. For example, for me, it is extremely extravagant to spend 10 thousand yuan to buy a skirt or a handbag for a child. It is definitely inappropriate and I will not do it. But for Li, if everything is like this, it may be normal.

Many people will say that Li Xiang is too extravagant, but many rich people are not. For example, Zuckerberg, a Silicon Valley tycoon, wears a gray T-shirt all the year round. Everyone thinks he is simple. In fact, this dress is an Italian luxury brand, which costs about 400 dollars each, or about 2600 yuan.

Secondly, I don't know the overall situation of Li Xiang's adopted daughters. What we see is what the media or Li Xiang himself presents to us who eat melons. For example, Zuckerberg mentioned just now is very frugal even if he wears a $400 T-shirt. The media often reports that he drives a Toyota all the year round and eats a $30 McDonald's with his wife in the street. But we rarely see Zuckerberg spend $654.38 billion to build a house for a clean environment; It is also rare to see Zuckerberg spend tens of millions of dollars on bodyguards every year.

Therefore, when evaluating Li Xiang, I think we should be more cautious. Perhaps the media is constantly shaping Li Xiang and spending too much money to train extravagant people for her daughter.

My understanding of Li Xiang's daughter, Wang Shiling, remains in the impression that she participated in Where is Dad going when she was four years old. She is not sissy, polite and considerate, which is very impressive. Judging from Wang Shiling at that time, I thought education was quite successful. I think childhood education is very important. If there is no problem as a child, it is unlikely to grow up. Of course, I don't guarantee that there will be intentional results from TV stations in the reality show.

The above is for Li. For ordinary people, I think it is money.

First, it is spiritual enrichment. At first, the child has no feelings about material things. As long as food, clothing, housing and transportation are not much different from other children, he won't care. But spiritual love, trust, support and understanding for children are the real rich support and source of strength for his life growth.

Second, don't exceed your affordability with financial support. Li Xiang's family is hard to say. There are many middle classes around me, and many people also advocate having money to raise children. Especially in some middle-class families with low education level, children go abroad twice a year, and talented tutors are the most tolerant parents, and food and clothing are famous brands. I have seen a child eat all the imported fruits, such as Japanese apples and Japanese grapes. That's good, but it's too expensive for me to buy. The child's family is not as rich as Li Xiang, that is, the working class. I don't think this enrichment is appropriate.

Third, no matter how rich you are, you must know the sufferings of the world. People have ups and downs, so does society. Looking at a hundred years, there are too many ups and downs in life. Just like Scarlett and Melanie in Gone with the Wind, they are both upper-class women who have never done anything, but after their homes are destroyed, they must recognize the reality and work hard on their own. At present, our society is developing steadily and affluent, and many risk education are lacking. I think this should also be strengthened.

what do you think?

Li Xiang, the former host of Hunan Satellite TV's Happy Camp, was transferred to Shenzhen Satellite TV on 20 13 and 1 as the deputy director of Shenzhen Satellite TV; 20 16 served as the president of qihoo 360, in charge of film and television and entertainment related content; At the same time, he is also the chairman and general manager of Beijing Happy Star Culture Media Co., Ltd. ... Judging from this resume, Li Xiang is one of the bosses.

Li Xiang's daughter, Wang Shiling, is well known to the audience for filming "Where is Dad?" with her father. Before that, she became the target of public criticism because of Li Xiang's excessive "enrichment" of her daughter. Wang Shiling grew up wearing ten thousand yuan clothes and carrying ten thousand yuan handbags.

Li wants to say publicly that he can buy a villa with the cost of training Wang Shiling for one year.

I don't support the concept of enriching children's education.

Some people may say that sour grapes are because you can't eat them.

Of course, others can also think so.

The situation of each family is different, the level of parents is different, and the education received by children is also very different. But no matter what kind of educational environment and conditions children have, the basic follow-up and essence of education are the same.

Parents are capable and the family is rich. It is understandable to invest heavily in children's education, but there is a limit to everything, and excessive investment is bound to be harmful. If you don't pull the bow enough, the arrow won't shoot far. If you pull it too full, the bow will break, the string will break, and the arrow won't shoot.

No matter what kind of family a child is born in and what kind of conditions he has, in the process of growing up, the necessary frustration education, independent education, self-care ability education and value orientation education are indispensable.

Strong will, sense of responsibility, diligence, independence, national feelings, attitude towards life, dedication, etc. These are the endless energy that must be given to children in family education and the power for future development.

Blindly wrapped with money, paved with money, built a comfortable nest with money, and created a circle of enjoyment with money. This kind of education often makes children lose themselves, lose their value orientation, and even lose their faith and truly elegant pursuit of life.

In any prosperous world wrapped in money, the simplest, most sincere and most elegant life beliefs are incomparable.

Material is the foundation of life. Without better material conditions, it is impossible to guarantee a better life. However, instilling and guiding children's extreme pursuit of material things in education is very easy to make children spiritually empty.

A child wears clothes and handbags with a price reduction of 10 thousand yuan. You should know that this way is not to raise money, but to raise money and cultivate children's values that are not in line with age.

A child can buy a villa after a year's training. Obviously, this is not the so-called rich support, it is to use money to pave the way for children.

I don't know if the road paved with this money is practical, thick and not solid. Can children walk this road independently?

I have no objection. Parents with good conditions and strong abilities create excellent learning and living conditions for their children. But I don't agree with this so-called rich support, regardless of cost and method.

First, it is still a question whether Li Xiang deliberately "enriched his daughter". Because there is no specific measure between the rich and the poor. In our eyes, rich support may be the normal consumption behavior of other people's families.

How much does Li want to earn a month? How much money can we make in another month? Income level determines consumption level. Li Xiang's consumption level should not be measured by our economic strength.

Second, parents want to provide their children with a quality life within their power, and so do celebrities.

As a celebrity and a rich man, Li Xiang naturally doesn't need money to support his children. We ordinary people try our best to tilt the wealth and resources at home to our children and try our best to provide them with a better life. Maybe it is easier and less stressful for her to pay for her daughter's quality life than we can give her ordinary food and clothing.

Third, no one has proved that raising children in poverty is more promising.

If poverty can be more promising, everyone will definitely rush to go to backward areas. In fact, this did not happen.

I think you misunderstood the word "have money to support"?

Enrichment refers to a broad vision and a sound personality.

First, the so-called "rich support" of the nouveau riche style is called showing off the rich support.

An undeniable social reality is that after some people have money, they may have suffered too much, they may feel that they owed too much to their children before, or they don't want their children to suffer again, for various reasons. Therefore, the company is not enough, so make up for it with money; Suffering too much, raising with money; And so on.

Therefore, there are nannies in housework and they are unwilling to let their children get their hands on them; Travel must be a driver, reluctant to take the subway bus for children; Eating must be delicious, don't worry about children eating casually; When you buy water abroad, you don't have to worry about what water there is at home. . .

Actually, what I want to say is, do you want to decorate the air at the top of the Alps?

In fact, what I want to ask is, even if the children trained in this way are proficient in everything, can they really survive?

Rich but not three generations. I think what the old people said makes sense!

Second, the real enrichment is to make a girl have vision, education, education and ability.

A girl, with a broad vision, is not superior, which is called having money to support;

A girl, with good knowledge and good conversation, is called rich support;

A girl, well-educated, cherishes her family, friends and elders, and is called Fuyang;

A girl has good hands-on ability, from sewing clothes to doing housework, from trading to traveling independently. It's called having money to support.

A girl with excellent habits and the ability to continue learning is called having money to support!

In short, a girl who has money to support really needs certain economic conditions as the foundation; But good economic conditions do not mean money. This is closely related to parents' vision and pattern!

Poverty limits our imagination and makes us look at people too narrowly.

I can't comment on and disagree with Li Xiang's educational concept of "nurturing daughters". There is only one reason. We are not at the same level and can't understand the lifestyle of the rich. If I have that much money, why not spend it, especially for children, not to mention children's participation in activities and public appearances. Even in normal times, I will buy her the best clothes and eat the most upscale meals. Money is so capricious, there is nothing wrong with it.

I also want to give my daughter the best. I don't have good financial conditions, but I have a heart and feel enough.

Chat with your child at ordinary times, capture her needs, and then do it silently:

For example, she told me that it was a little cold to go to work, a little hot to wear cotton trousers and a little cold to wear threaded trousers. Of course, you need work clothes outside. I looked it up on the Internet and sent her a pair of Mao Mao pants. When she put them on, the child was very happy, and it was not cold. In fact, these pants are only tens of dollars.

Another example is: on holiday, the children are bored at home, mumbling, and a little melon seeds. I went downstairs quietly and bought a ten-dollar bill to bring back. The child hugged my neck happily and kissed it. How nice of mom! I am also happy in my heart.

This is what I can give my children. I try my best to be the best.

I don't compare with anyone and I don't judge anyone's right or wrong. As long as I don't exceed my ability, I am correct and understandable.

I love my daughter, and she loves me, which is enough.

Is this a human version of Ge You Lie? I shudder at the sight of the recent photo of Wang Shiling! Is this how rich adopted daughters come out?

Wang Shiling, born in June 65438+1October 65438+March 2009, is now over ten years old. 10 years old, for a girl, she should be an elegant and decent girl, and Wang Shiling's Sit refreshed her understanding of 10 years old girls.

From the photos, Wang Shiling, who is slightly fat, lies comfortably on Li Xiang, completely covering her, and Li Xiang's arm just holds her daughter tightly. Judging from the way Wang Shiling enjoys it, this should not be the first time to sit like this.

Does Li want to be tired? Is Wang Shiling comfortable? We don't know. You look tired anyway.

In the education of her daughter, Li Xiang has always stressed the need to "raise well." Clothes should be the most expensive, bags should not be branded, food should be eaten locally, and bodyguards and nannies should accompany you when you go out. I will do anything for my daughter without hesitation.

It is often said that a girl should be raised well and given enough material conditions, so that she will not be "cheated" by a boy because of a little temptation in the future.

But you know, you have money, and some people have more money than you. What should I do if I am cheated by a richer person? People who can think like this don't understand the meaning of having money to support.

What is enrichment? Concentration means meeting all material requirements. Being rich is to spoil her into a small public deed?

No, the real meaning of enrichment is spiritual enrichment, which is to cultivate her daughter's spiritual independence, exercise her temperament and cultivate the qualities of self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement.

When encountering things, she has independent judgment and handling ability; When encountering feelings, she has the ability to understand each other; When she meets a problem, she has the ability to distinguish right from wrong.

In fact, it is not necessarily the life of the noble princess that is spent with money, but it may suffer from the "princess disease" that everyone can't avoid.

Li Xiang, the former host of Happy Camp on Hunan Satellite TV, was a household name at that time. /kloc-in 0/3, he began to shift his focus to Shenzhen Satellite TV and became the deputy director of Shenzhen Satellite TV. /kloc-president of qihoo 360 in 0/6 years, in charge of film and television and entertainment related content; At the same time, he also serves as the chairman and general manager of Beijing Happy Star Culture Media Co., Ltd. ..

Recently, Li Xiang began to bring goods to Taobao live broadcast, and because it was said in the program that a sock was not sold in China, it was sold in Hong Kong, which triggered condemnation from netizens, but it ended in nothing.

On February 2nd, 65438, Li Xiang's family of three once again appeared in the audience's field of vision. This time, Li Xiang and her husband Wang Yuelun accompanied their daughter Wang Shiling in an advertisement.

Wang Shiling is well known to the audience because he filmed Where is Dad? With his father. Prior to this, Li Xiang became the target of public criticism because of over-enriching her daughter. Wang Shiling grew up wearing ten thousand yuan clothes and carrying ten thousand yuan handbags.

The so-called "rich support" needs a solid economic foundation. Whether poor or rich, it is most important to guide children to have a correct value. Moreover, Wang Shiling's talent level in piano, equestrian and painting is also quite high, at least he won at the starting line. Li wants to say publicly that he can buy a villa at the cost of training Wang Shiling for one year.

If there is a good economic foundation, which parent will not provide the best living and learning conditions for their children with the greatest financial resources?

So I personally think that every family has its own way of educating children, and every child is different. Parents are the closest relatives of children. Perhaps Li Xiang's "rich support" is the best growth model that parents and children can find.

Stars' "educational investment" in their children is beyond the reach of ordinary people. In addition to Li Xiang, there are Stephy, Andy Lau, Lin Yilun, Wang Zhonglei, Tian Liang, Lv Siqing and others.

Take Li Xiang's daughter Wang Shiling as an example. Many people's first impression of her is the "moat".

Wearing hundreds of thousands of clothes at an early age, even holding a handbag is at least 20,000 to 30,000. There is a birthday party on 10, with a bracelet of 50,000 yuan and a rose bear worth 90,000 yuan.

Mainly because people have strong capital.

Not to mention the income of Li Xiang and her husband Wang Yuelun, Wang Shiling alone became a "child star":

When I was 4 years old, I followed Wang Yuelun to advertise milk and hand sanitizer after Where is Dad?

At the age of 5, she became the first "FashionBaby" to appear in Fashion Week.

Since then, Wang Shiling has become the first China child star to step onto the international stage.

Li Xiang once said that she never restricted what Wang Shiling ate, and she was willing to buy luxury goods for her children.

Actually, this is Li Xiang himself. She claims to eat 70,000 yuan a month, and the clothes she wears are all kinds of luxury brands.

But one thing must not be ignored. In addition to taking children everywhere to participate in various large-scale activities for them to study, Li Xiang also found an international primary school in Wang Shiling with an annual tuition fee of 200,000!

In Li Xiang's mind, education has a high status.

Li Xiang is not the only star who is willing to spend money on children. There are people who are more "embarrassed" than her, such as these great gods:

? Qi Wei used a bottle of French mineral water imported from 400 yuan to make milk powder for her daughter Lucky, because the mineral content was less.

? Andy Lau bought a private jet to facilitate his wife, Zhu Liqian, and his daughter to travel between Malaysia and Hongkong.

? Li Yan, 13 years old, was sent by Li and Faye Wong to a Swiss aristocratic school to study in Grade One. This school only enrolls 250 students every year, and it must have a skill. One-year tuition alone costs 820,000 RMB.

? Lin Yilun's son Lin Zihao began to learn English at the age of 3, piano at the age of 5, tennis and badminton at the age of 9, and boxing and skateboarding at the age of 12. The primary school he attended was the same as Faye Wong's eldest daughter, Leah Dou's youngest daughter Li Yan, Tian Liang's daughter Cindy and Wang Zhonglei's son William's younger brother.

? We all saw William's English level on TV. Although he is only seven years old, he can talk with foreigners for half an hour. Mainly because the international schools they attend are all taught in English, 60% of the teachers are from Britain, and most of the students are international children.

? Some time ago, a video went viral on the Internet, in which Lang Lang taught Lv Siqing's son to play the piano. Many people were amused by Lang Lang's pure Northeast dialect. But let us educators see that this is a private education invited by wealthy parents for their children. Under the guidance of Lang Lang, how can a child not play well?

? You know, Huang Lei's eldest daughter, Huang Duoduo, and Lv Siqing's son, Austin, just won five first prizes in piano solo, piano four-handed, and violin solo in the piano competition.

? 10 years old can translate English books, while Li Yan writes to Li in English.

This is the star's investment in children's education, and the return is great.

While we ordinary people are still trying our best to board the single-plank bridge, the rich have quietly taken their children on the rocket. In addition to international norms, international schools are also famous for their small class system and their ability to provide internationally recognized academic certificates. In other words, children studying in international schools can basically go to internationally renowned universities without taking other exams.

Conclusion: If we must sum up a view on Li Xiang's "rich foster daughter", I think Li Xiang is very rational. She doesn't just "spoil children". In addition to buying all kinds of luxury goods for her children, she has been educating her children in various subtle ways, such as letting her see the world and participate in various large-scale activities. Some people say that Li Xiang is preparing for Wang Shiling to enter the entertainment circle. This is normal. Li Xiang has entertainment resources to let children mix in this circle, which is the right decision made by a parent. For another example, don't many famous Beijing opera stars come from noble families?

On February 2, 65438, Li Xiangjia, who had been silent for a long time, finally had new news. Her daughter Wang Shiling started to work in a program. She stood on the stage wearing a colorful down jacket. It can be seen that Wang Shiling has grown a lot. She just turned 65,438+00 and is about to enter puberty. However, the changes in her facial features are unbelievable.

At that time, although Wang Shiling looked chubby, she was very clever because she was too young. The proportion of facial features is also just right, which fully conforms to the platform temperament of Li Xiang.

Nowadays, Wang Shiling's facial features are more and more like his father's, and his cuteness when he was less than 4 years old can no longer be seen in his brow. As we all know, Wang Shiling today is not only ugly, but also doesn't want people to see it.

With the growth of age, Wang Shiling's works become less and less because of his studies. Of course, this has a lot to do with the fact that TV stations prohibit children from recording reality shows.

Li Xiang looked like a big sister while watching the recorded samples. It is obviously inappropriate to pose like this in front of children. Because children always subconsciously follow their parents' example, Li Xiang's attitude at work is bound to affect children's correct outlook on life.

After Li Xiang retired from Mango Taiwan, her weight began to get out of hand. Based on the principle of "getting fat first and then getting fat", the weight of Li Xiang family is also rising.

Judging from the work photos of Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun a long time ago, they were not born with obesity genes, but were caused by poor diet control. Young Wang Shiling, on the road to obesity, was also influenced by her parents. Now 10 years old, she is still obese when she was 4 years old. Obviously, two parents should reflect on themselves.

Li Xiang once said in the program that her idea of raising Wang Shiling is "having money". However, at present, the concept of "raising children in poverty and raising women in wealth" has been proved to be one-sided countless times, and this concept has also been fulfilled in Wang Shiling.

In fact, both boys and girls should be well-fed, but the correct well-fed is not pampered in money, but spiritual wealth.

Wang Shiling was an innocent and lovely child when he participated in Where is Dad?

Li Xiang not only enriched her daughter in appetite, but also enriched her daughter in ability.

Wang Shiling is only ten years old this year. He learned to arrange flowers at the age of nine.

The poster designed at the age of 8 is chosen by the students.

At the age of 6, she studied skating with Chen Lu (Chen Lu, the first figure skating world champion in China and the first figure skater in Asia who won two consecutive Winter Olympics medals).

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The little girl didn't fall behind.

Wang Shiling was so cute when she participated in Where is Dad? Now he is getting fatter and fatter. Li Xiang once said that obesity is only temporary and will lose weight in the future.

But look at the recent photo of Wang Shiling, not fat, but fat!

But as long as Wang Shiling is healthy, who are we to blame others?

Li Xiang, who was called the first sister of Mango Taiwan in the entertainment circle in those days, was later poached by an 8-digit satellite TV.

Weibo's name changed from "host Li Xiang" to "anchor Li Xiang"

In recent years, Li Xiang's reputation has been declining. Since she left Hunan Taiwan, her resources have been declining and she has been selling goods live. Although many stars will sell goods live, the focus is on selling, but Li Xiang is different. She doesn't have her own products and sells everything. As long as there are businesses looking for her, the key is her attitude of selling goods. She doesn't do her homework at all, just like other stars.

But people are rich! The world of the rich is beyond our imagination. In my eyes, it may be regarded as showing off wealth, but it is really just the ordinary life of others.