I often hear many parents who can't control their children say that "as long as they wait until school, there will naturally be teachers to control them"!
The school held a parent-teacher meeting, and some parents came back and said that they had been chatting and playing with their mobile phones, saying that the teacher talked too much nonsense.
When I hear them say that, I always worry about those children. Yes, in the days of kindergarten life, the responsibility belongs to the teacher. Teachers should do everything possible to help children and guide them to form good habits.
But in fact, parents are the people who have the most contact with their children, and they also need their education in daily life. Only parents and teachers can guide children together and be responsible for their growth and development, so it must be clear that teachers have responsibilities, but parents' responsibilities are more important.
No matter whether a person's grades are good or not, character is the key. Morality can make up for the defects of ability, but ability can't cover up the defects of morality. However, a child's character is largely related to his family education. Teachers are only the people taught by the profession, and parents are the influencers of children's life. Parents' words and deeds are always greater than teachers' 45-minute classroom education. Therefore, to make children have good conduct, family education is the most critical, and teachers can only play a supporting role.
I remember reading such a passage:
Dozens of Nobel Prize winners got together. The reporter asked a Nobel Prize winner scientist, "Where did you learn what you think is the most important thing?" .
The scientist said calmly, "In kindergarten."
What did you learn in kindergarten?
Learn to share things, don't take things that don't belong to you, put things back in order, wash your hands before eating, apologize for doing something wrong, have a rest after lunch, observe nature carefully and so on!
The scientist gave an unexpected answer, but he also directly understood that forming good habits in childhood is of decisive significance to a person's life.
Teachers' responsibilities are important, but parents' education of their children is more important.
What are parents?
American psychologists have found that 20% of a person's success depends on his acquired efforts and 80% depends on his father's teaching.
As an "important person" in a child's life, if the father speaks out, the influence on the child is 50 times that of the mother.
The mother's influence on the child is whether the child can become an independent person, and the father's shaping of the child's outlook on life is related to the formation of personality.
Whether a person's relationship with his mother is harmonious or not will affect whether the child's future marriage is happy or not, whether the relationship with his father is harmonious or not, and whether the child's future career is successful or not.
Remember to give your child 15 minutes of high-quality companionship every day, establish a close parent-child relationship with your child, and play and interact with your child every day without distraction, work or pressure.
Maybe you have a successful career, but the success of your career can't make up for the failure of family education. Whether it is a child, the child is not the mother's alone. You only have one chance to grow up and educate your children. Don't miss it.
If our children grow up and reach the age of 15, 18, you will find that they will need their own space more and more.
They will no longer "pester you"
No longer "unreasonable" to let you accompany him.
I won't be held in your arms like when I was a child.
I won't drag you to the bed again, begging you to tell a story to sleep with him like I did when I was a child.
You will find that in children, many times closest to you, once missed, will never come back.
Dear parents, please take more time to hold your baby in your arms and slowly experience the years when you really have a baby.
Let's call it a night Thank you for listening. Look forward to seeing you next time! ! !