Christina's son is enviable. What is the secret for an old mother to cultivate such a "fairy-level" child? First, give children a separate judgment.

When many parents educate their children and make decisions about certain things, they generally don't let them make their own judgments and decisions. The parents' idea is "Your child, I have walked more roads than you have walked." They usually rely on them to have more life experience than their children and force them to accept their choices for their children. And such behavior, over time, makes children lose their independent judgment ability and can't make corresponding management decisions by themselves. Better parents can't decide for their children, but they can have their own choices. Perhaps the child's choice is not necessarily correct, but only through trial and error can the child really choose his own direction.

Second, let children do things by themselves.

As parents, you and I always want to give our children something better, so we must try our best to realize what their children want, but many parents will think that "as long as you have paid for their children, their children will naturally learn to be grateful and benefit themselves", but we usually ignore one thing selectively. Good children are handed over, and no child can learn to use a certain way. Parents don't complain about how their children don't warm their hearts, but worry about why other children understand and give gifts to their parents on holidays, while their children can only ask for gifts.

Third, exercise children's better self-discipline ability.

Many parents will envy other people's children's excellent grades, not only playing the piano but also drawing, being polite and doing things in an orderly way. Among them, self-discipline plays a very important role. Children with good self-discipline know self-discipline and are not easy to indulge themselves excessively, but when doing something, good self-discipline can also make children more focused. Although self-discipline is linked to personality characteristics, active children have worse self-discipline than introverted and quiet children, but it can be corrected through acquired training.