This should be the beauty that countless parents who have gone to school yearn for.

Next, I will talk about some of my views on this issue. I have practiced some specific methods, but I don't know if it is useful to change to another home. You can refer to them.

The content will be longer, I don't know how many people can insist on reading it, but I believe that if you can finish reading it, there will be a lot of gains.

Speaking of conscious learning, I think there is one thing that most children, even adults, can do.

That is playing games.

Let's first look at why games make many people feel so sleepy.

In my opinion, any successful game has one of the biggest characteristics, which is addictive. So why are games addictive? There will be many factors in this, and we will only talk about the game itself. A friend of mine specializes in background data analysis of games. He told me that he would analyze a lot of data in the background to find out what kind of activities players are more interested in, what kind of props they want to buy and consume, what kind of activity packages they are more popular with, and what kind of questions they ask the most ... All physical fitness data will become an important adjustment basis for future updates of the game.

You see, a successful game, it is aimed at a large number of players, according to their hobbies, preferences, habits, targeted to launch the corresponding activities. They will artificially stimulate players' desire for consumption. For example, if a person wants props, then launch this activity at a certain time or sell the corresponding gift package.

In the process of playing the game, players will always enjoy some satisfaction and sense of accomplishment brought by the game. For example, the special effects when the level is upgraded, such as the joy when defeating the other side, such as the anger after the defeat ... all these emotional fluctuations will make them hope to work harder and achieve better results.

For example, the glory of the king, as we all know, is addicted to mathematics, and negative reports abound.

The most important thing is that there is no compulsion and nagging in these processes, but players will work consciously.

And it is difficult for us to experience this feeling in our study.

This is because, if you want to learn your grades well, you will face the problem of reciting memories anyway. A lot of training, repeated training is essential. Not many people will be willing to take the initiative to do all this. Because it is difficult for them to find the stimulus to stimulate them in this process.

So I suggest the following methods to cultivate children's awareness and see if there is any effect:

The first adult should practice the game number when training children.

Both RMB players and 0 yuan Party need to ensure enough online time.

So when it comes to educating children, we should always online. If you can't remember, log in to your account, get bored in a few minutes, get bored, and then log off.

As a result of playing like this, I think we all know that we can abandon the pit in the game, but in life, we can't return the children, can we?

Therefore, you can't fish for three days and dry the net for two days. If you remember, take care of it. If you can't remember, let him die.

Second, recognize the reality and don't be delusional.

Some parents always expect their children to be sensible one day, and then they can consciously study or do something. Ideal is full, reality is skinny!

Learning itself is not a particularly easy thing, and it is not easy to find happiness. All children who consciously study have one thing in common, that is, they think it is necessary to learn this thing. Whether it is responsibility, task or pressure, in short, in his view, this thing must be done.

With this premise, children can realize the so-called conscious learning.

Of course, if the child is already in high school, then this situation is different, because at that time, the child is old, has certain plans for the future, and believes that hard work can get better returns. This is the most basic truth. As a child, although he can understand this truth, he is only limited to understanding this truth. He himself is not very clear about the hard-working people, their purpose and significance. Even the vision, yearning, goals and so on for the future are actually very vague.

Therefore, parents must recognize the reality, and then make demands on their children from every little thing and supervise him to complete it. Notice that I mentioned the word supervision. We must supervise and not let it go. Everyone has a relaxed mood. If you don't supervise, he will gradually choose a more convenient way to deal with this problem.

Third, make a study plan and do a good job in learning management.

I have seen many families' study plans, some specific to every minute, some only a few completely open plans, some very, very detailed plans specific to each small goal, and one parent is more attentive. He makes a new plan for the next day every day. ...

No matter what kind of plan it is, in fact, his purpose is to train and cultivate children to learn to manage and plan in the process of learning. And it is very important to make it clear to the children why we should make such plans, what impact these plans will have, and what is our next goal? What should be prepared for this goal? Everything has to be strung together.

In other words, children's learning process is a clear process. No matter what difficulties she meets and what achievements she has made, he knows that this is not the end, but a new beginning.

Fourth, slowly withdraw from children's learning activities.

If you want your child to learn consciously, then parents must not care too much, but this process should take time. Parents must supervise and rely on them in the early stage. As children's learning status is good, parents should start to try to quit slowly and let their children finish their studies independently. This process can be delayed a little longer.

For example, it took me nearly a year to complete this transformation. Even so, I dare not take it lightly. I will check and supervise from time to time. If I find something wrong with the child's brain, I will brainwash him. If I find a problem with my child's plan, I will help him improve and adjust the plan together.

Fifth, talk more about dreams.

Life is not just learning and playing, but also dreaming. You can talk about your dream and your efforts to realize it. You must pay attention to your gains in this process, with the emphasis on the gains in the process.

As we all know, a person's mental perseverance is far stronger than his body. Many times, in the face of difficulties, pressures and setbacks, the reason why a person can support himself is not how strong his body is, but how strong his spirit is. In my opinion, the best way to cultivate spirit is to give children regular guidance and think in the direction of positive energy. It is hard for us to imagine how a person full of negative energy can face countless difficulties and choose to move forward resolutely.

So children think that the problem will be relatively simple. At this time, communication and guidance between adults and children will be very important. It can be said that the formation of children's initial three views is closely related to the way and content of adults' daily communication.

Sixth, learn to trust children.

Although the child is still young, his self-esteem is still very strong. If you don't trust him, it will be the greatest harm to him, so you must give him some trust in life and study! Children will do better because of this trust.

In fact, every child really wants to behave better in front of his parents and win their recognition and love.

It can be said that when you don't feel that children have this idea, I think there must be something wrong with your education. A child who doesn't care what his parents think, who will he care about?

Seventh, study more, communicate more and spray less.

It is important to study online, buy books, or communicate with other parents in the group. If a person has the ability, it is impossible to take care of all aspects. Only by communicating with others and learning more can he make continuous progress and improvement. Personal ability is so, so is learning to educate children.

So don't take part in spraying teachers, schools, institutions and education systems. These things are good for your education. Your children have nothing to do with this. You just have to do what you have to do, what our own children should do. A policy of the outside world may change as soon as it is said, but what will never change is learning step by step.