1, understand the reasons why children escape. It is still difficult for children to tell the reason, because they don't even have the courage to express it. The best way is for parents to observe more, and then use the method of "silence" to penetrate into children's psychology bit by bit and slowly let them open their hearts.

2. Accept your child's failure. In this case, lower your standards, give your children more trust and encouragement, and tell them clearly that failure is the norm, and all success is accumulated from the experience of failure, so failure is not terrible. If you continue to work hard next time, I believe you will overcome the difficulties one day.

3. Cultivate more interests. If possible, I still hope that my parents can stay with me and give my children a little more sense of security. When they do what they like, they will feel more confident, because their parents are around, and they will not be afraid.

4. Adjust the way of education. I hope parents don't do things that undermine their children's self-confidence. From now on, they should encourage more and don't always see shortcomings. In addition, they can prepare some books for their children and take them out of the haze by reading positive energy books.