How high school parents educate their children;
1, the key to open the door of communication: find the topic that children are interested in. If parents want to go deep into their children's hearts and open the door to communication, they must put down their bodies and relax. Body, do what you like, and understand your child's hobbies. Start with children's interests.
Since children are willing to communicate with you and open their hearts, as parents, you must not live up to their trust, let alone touch their "lamella". Instead, listen first, let the children talk, confess, and then continue. Guide slowly, express your thoughts and opinions, and follow your hair. It will never be bad for you.
Don't just look at the results, look at the essence from the phenomenon. "There is no winning general. People make mistakes, and horses make mistakes. " Parents should not only look at their children's achievements, but also see the problems behind their efforts and achievements, help them find out the reasons and solve problems together. It's the king.
4. When parents see that their children have problems with their grades, they must first affirm their efforts. No matter whether their academic performance is good or bad, all the children are sweating. No soldier doesn't want to be a general. Secondly, you should take your child to analyze the loss of points on the paper and see if the specific reason for the child's loss of points is carelessness, lack of knowledge or improper methods. Then sort out the mistakes and find a solution.
5. Don't put pressure on children. As a parent of a high school student, the child has been under great pressure. Parents should not "add fuel to the fire", otherwise it will become "the last straw to crush the camel". Don't talk about grades in front of children, especially when children don't want to talk about it, and don't compare your children with the children of seven aunts and eight aunts next door, so as to create a good family education environment for children. Children, let children release pressure and better invest in their studies.
6, children work and rest, appropriate decompression. The general environment cannot be changed, but parents can change their children, and how to change it depends on their mentality and family environment. After the children come home, parents can chat, play games and listen to music besides studying. Let children and parents face the confusion or pressure in their study, adjust their mentality and face it positively.
7. Communicate with teachers frequently. As parents, it is parents' responsibility to know their children's learning and school performance from teachers in time, and it is also one of the criteria for qualified parents. Children are their own and can't be left at school. Learning depends entirely on the teacher, so he knows nothing about children. Parents should always ask the class teacher and the teacher about their children, communicate with the teacher and make appropriate responses.