Parents should educate boys not to be brave when things happen. Educating children is very important for their growth, so it is very necessary for us to educate children from an early age. The following sharing parents should educate boys not to be brave when they are in trouble.
Parents should educate boys not to be brave when they are in trouble. One night, 1 1 year-old Xiao Dong saw two men robbing a girl's wallet. Although this is a remote street, there is a police station at the corner of the next intersection. Thinking of this, Xiaodong immediately ran to the police station and rushed to Hengfa with two policemen on duty. The police quickly subdued the two gangsters. They said with appreciation, "Little classmate, it's a good thing you called the police in time!" Xiao Dong said, "My parents always say that you should be resourceful and be brave in doing good. Although some children are brave, they often do bad things with good intentions. " The policeman said, "You are right. Don't be brave when you are in danger. "
Brave boys should learn to use strategies, and an important part of brave education is safety education. For Xiao Dong, he didn't panic or bluff in the face of danger, but decided to take a more effective way to solve the problem. When you educate a boy, you must teach him more effective methods, such as the use of 1 10 emergency telephone, 120 emergency telephone and1/9 fire telephone.
Only when your own safety is guaranteed is it a wise move to save people. This not only shows the boy's love for others, but also shows your love for the boy. Furthermore, love is indispensable in the content of brave education. Parents should give full play to their love correctly and guide boys to have love for others. When a boy shows fear, parents should first look for the cause of the problem and see if the crux is on themselves. When helping the boy overcome his fear of difficulties, tell him that we all love and care about you. Because you are a boy at home, you must be a brave man. When he shows courage, his parents should encourage him, praise him and let him continue.
Parents should educate boys not to be brave when they are in trouble. I don' t know where to start. Parents with boys around them began to agree to let the boys go to kindergarten or the first grade later. The reason is that boys can't sit still at school. I hope he can start studying a little older, so the effect is better.
I don't know if this theory has a reliable source, but as a father of a boy, I can really feel the difference between boys and girls from the details of daily life. For example, boys are lively and active since childhood, and they can't stop for a moment, but girls can be quiet for a while and listen to their mothers telling stories when they are young. Boys often don't look more "sensible" than girls, which may be related to nature. Girls are naturally sensitive and know how to read and speak, while boys are nervous. In school, it is often boys who are naughty, while girls study better. ...
But don't underestimate the energy in boys' bodies. It's terrible that they don't study well, but parents should work harder on guidance. Today, I will talk to you about some learning styles suitable for boys that I have summed up in the process of parenting.
Visual learning method
Do you find that boys like comics better than girls? That's because most boys prefer to get information from pictures. Research shows that 67% of boys are visual learners, while girls are better at learning from words.
Knowing this feature, parents can try to use vision to help guide boys to learn. For example, telling him a story book with pictures may be better than telling him a story book with pure words; If he can't remember an English word, guide him to close his eyes and try to describe the word with a picture in his mind; When reciting ancient poems, you can also guide him to draw stick figures according to the contents of ancient poems, and the effect will be better.
Spatial learning method
It is said that "men study science and women study literature", and boys seem to be more talented in mathematics, architecture and science, because boys are more sensitive to space and better at thinking about the relationship between everything. So it is very helpful for him to cultivate a boy's sensitivity to space.
Compared with buying toys such as cars, knives and guns for boys, it is better to guide children to play with toys that are more spatial and require creativity and hands-on ability, such as tall buildings, building blocks and puzzles. These toys can stimulate children's brains and let them learn and improve constantly while playing. In addition, boys are naturally naughty and good at learning through touch and muscle movement. Give him enough space to concentrate on exploration and try boldly!
Practical learning method
As the parents of boys, you must have found that boys have stronger hands-on ability. They don't like to sit in the same place and learn from books, but prefer to learn and grow through hands-on practice. For example, they will like to take toys apart and then assemble them.
Therefore, when parents help boys plan their winter and summer vacations, they should not blindly arrange their children to attend interest classes, but take their children to exercise and participate in some social practice activities. It would be better if they could make him a member of some practice teams. For example, instead of forcing him to read at home, let him participate in volunteer activities in the library. I believe that the experience of working in the library for one month will bring growth and change to children.
Don't always sigh that girls are smart and sensible and love to learn. In fact, that naughty, naughty, endless boy also has many bright spots waiting for you to discover!