? When people come into the world, they are first and foremost a life. Life is the most precious thing for everyone, but many times, people live not for life, but for wealth, status and ambition. Not for life, but for wealth, power, status and reputation. In fact, the truth of life is simple, and the needs of life are simple; The truth of the soul is noble. As a life, people should have compassion, love and care for others. As a soul, they should have dignity and respect others. The true meaning of love is-gratitude, gratitude meeting, love in the heart, gratitude love, happiness in the heart; The essence of growth is self-education. All learning is self-study in essence, and all education is self-education in essence. The goal of self-education is not only to acquire knowledge and career success, but also to cultivate the mind and enrich human nature.

? After middle age, people should gradually establish two aspects of consciousness, one is to reach a settlement with the necessary defects in life, and the other is to cherish the fundamental value of life.

The first thing in "Three Painful Stories" is to miss Shi Tiesheng. I have just seen his works, so a sense of intimacy arises spontaneously. Zhou and Shi Tiesheng are soul mates. Shi Tiesheng in his mind is a child and a philosopher. He has a childlike innocent smile, unsophisticated, innocent and simple interests; He is a philosopher and his philosophical wisdom is deeply rooted in his nature. A person who keeps children's innocence and curiosity has excellent intuition because of innocence and wants to explore the answers to the world and life because of curiosity, which constitutes the wisdom of philosophers. In the article, he recalled several pleasant meetings with Shi Tiesheng, but instead showed his sadness and regret for Shi Tiesheng's departure. He said that there must be a spiritual kinship between people. He and Shi Tiesheng are spiritually connected. Shi Tiesheng said: Writing is to solve your own problems. When you start writing, you look at it with imitation. When you write to a certain extent, you are solving your own problems. He called Shi Tiesheng the most emotional writer in China.