1. I hope parents will stop comparing other children. Percussion education will not encourage children to make progress, but will only hurt their self-esteem and make them feel sensitive and inferior. Every child wants his parents to protect themselves as in the story, because in the eyes of children, home is a warm haven, but no matter how many times he falls outside, he will prop up his own energy source behind him. If you really want your child to be excellent, please learn to accept everything about him and give him encouragement and advice when he encounters setbacks. This love and encouragement will become the biggest battle shield in his life.
Children who grow up under the control of their parents, even if they have their own children, are weak, just like they have never grown up and have no confidence to raise their children well. Naturally, the task of taking care of the children is taken over by the elders. Many parents deliberately say things that children won't or won't do. The original intention is to use negative incentives, but they don't know how much negative labels will affect children. Children need encouragement. Parents are their first teachers. Labeling children at will, even if it is a casual hint, may set their future within a certain range and even endanger their growth.
The world of adults is different from that of children, which may work for us, but for children, they will be more sad and their relationship with their parents will become less intimate. Many children who grow up in this environment will eventually become extremely sensitive and even have cracks with their parents. The above is the answer to the question of what hurts children the most when parents educate their children.