I. Equal status and mentality:

1. Children are individuals with independent personality and thoughts. Although young, the current social environment, the speed of information dissemination and the diversity of contact content have exposed children to many things and ideas very early, showing the characteristics of maturity and independence earlier than the previous generation.

2. If parents can't communicate with their children in an equal manner and can't give them equal status, but adopt a strong attitude of "big versus small", it is easy to cause children's resentment and resistance. Over time, it is difficult to establish effective communication and mutual trust.

Second, parents should set an example:

1, a successful child, parents play a positive role as high as 30%, but a failed child, parents play a negative role of at least 70%. From birth to adult independence, parents are the closest relatives who always accompany their children, and their words and deeds will become the standard for children to imitate.

2. If parents ask their children to study hard, be honest and polite, and develop good living habits, but they have bad hobbies such as playing mobile phones and playing mahjong, so that children will imitate them. Parents must set an example and be strict with themselves in order to play a positive demonstration role for their children.

Third, the transmission and cultivation of love:

1. Love is the psychological basis of filial piety, etiquette, empathy and compassion. Only with a caring person can we love others and ourselves.

2. Love will be manifested in many aspects, such as caring for parents and elders, caring for classmates and friends, and helping vulnerable groups. Only when children are surrounded by the right loving environment from childhood can they feel the warmth and intimate dependence between people, people and animals, and people and nature, and help them build a good psychological foundation.