What is personalized education?
Individualized education refers to tailor-made educational objectives, educational plans, counseling programs and implementation management systems according to social or future development trends, potential characteristics and self-worth tendencies of educated objects, and goals and requirements of stakeholders of educated objects through comprehensive investigation, research, analysis, testing, evaluation and diagnosis. And organize relevant professionals to consult, plan, educate and train the mentality, ideas, beliefs, thinking ability, learning ability, innovation, knowledge, skills and experience of the educated object from the aspects of potential development, literacy education, academic education, experience education, vocational education, entrepreneurship education and spiritual education through tailor-made education and training methods, learning management and knowledge management technology and the integration of effective educational resources.
Every child has his own advantages and characteristics. Parents should understand their children's roots in the process of early education, adopt good educational methods according to their actual situation, teach children in accordance with their aptitude, cultivate their good habits, and let their children give full play to their advantages and become a spiritual, curious and active person. So, how to carry out personalized education for children? There are some desirable suggestions and some problems that need to be avoided. You don't have to go to an early education institution.
Understand the child's personality, and then decide the education method according to the child's personality. Analyze specific problems, cultivate children's good study habits and give play to their unique learning advantages. Never regard your child's learning advantage as a defect and wear it off. In that case, children will lose their original spirituality, curiosity and learning initiative will disappear, and it is very lucky to be able to cultivate a learning machine with high scores and low energy.
Children's nature is actually closer to willfulness. Not mixed with social factors. Or temperament with a small amount of social factors. I once heard an educator express his feelings about children's education from the perspective of children's nature, which was quite touching. So today I suddenly remembered to talk to parents about the nature of children taught by this expert.
1, rebellious
As time goes on and children grow up day by day, we will find that they are more and more disobedient and rebellious. At this time, we all have a headache and are very upset. In fact, this is a necessary stage for children to grow up. They should learn to think independently and learn to be independent day by day. Therefore, on the basis of understanding, we should make full use of children's rebellion and give correct guidance and guidance.
Zheng once said a thought-provoking remark. If a child likes learning from an early age and cherishes learning opportunities, we should instill in him from the moment he is born: our family is too poor to afford your education. It is difficult for you to study!
Step 2 imitate
The ancients said: if you don't teach, your father has passed; It's dark near Zhu Zhechi and Mexico! Children's life, from birth to learning, from toddler to independent adult, learning begins with imitation. As parents, we are actually very important "teachers" who accompany our children all their lives. We should be strict with ourselves in our daily life and set a good example for our children so that they can learn by imitation. Teach by example, subtly let children develop good habits. So even if we don't like it or are not good at it, sometimes we should learn to be a good actor for the sake of our children.
Step 3 be curious
Curiosity can kill cats, but curiosity can also make people gain more experience. The innate curiosity of human beings is particularly obvious in childhood, and they are full of interest in everything. We should give support and encouragement, don't underestimate children's cognitive ability, don't stifle their enthusiasm, and don't let children learn from curiosity too early. They should be allowed to study actively and actively.
How to carry out personalized education for children?
To discover children's hobbies, hobbies are the greatest motivation for learning. Of course, some hobbies need to be controlled. For example, some children like idolization, so parents should guide them appropriately and use idolize's successful example of suffering to encourage their children to be self-motivated.
Be good at discovering children's specialties and focus on cultivating them. Parents should pay more attention to their children in life and study, be good at discovering the characteristics and specialties of children at each stage, and encourage, support and pay attention to cultivating good specialties. Of course, children should not blindly pursue specialties, so that children can promote all-round development while learning and exerting their specialties.
Give children the right to choose their own learning style. Everyone has different ways of learning and thinking. Some children like to discuss, while others like to think independently. Parents should not interfere too much. Strengthening knowledge through discussion or quiet thinking is their own way of learning. Parents should give their children a certain choice.
1, respect the law of children's physical and mental development, and don't encourage others to do so.
If children are not suitable to do Olympic math problems, don't force them to study, because if children can't keep up, it will easily hit their self-confidence and make them afraid of learning. It is necessary to pay attention to putting children in a learning environment with similar level, which will help to stimulate their sense of competition, so that they will not feel depressed and lost because their peers are too good, nor will they slack off because their peers are too poor.
2, peace of mind, don't just look at the score.
The more exercise, the better. The sea tactics may make children get high scores in a short time, but it will increase their burden. Children's homework should aim at mastering knowledge and review appropriately to deepen their impressions. Because the homework assigned by the school is based on most students, children can be allowed to do school homework at a discount on the premise that they have mastered the knowledge. Don't force children to do those simple and repetitive topics, which will lead to children's weariness of learning. Doing fewer questions can make children focus on developing their learning ability, and their stamina will be great. Of course, if the child's knowledge is weak, you can burn a small stove for the child as appropriate.
Don't always compare your child's shortcomings with other children's strengths. Be good at discovering children's bright spots and affirming children's strengths in a timely and appropriate manner.
Because everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, for example, some children are smart and lively, with a wide range of interests, but they don't work hard enough, and some children are steady and diligent, doing their homework meticulously, but they don't have a good learning method; Some people are good at liberal arts, while others are strong in science; The key is that parents should have a discerning eye. A comprehensive and objective evaluation of children's test scores should be made, and a personalized learning plan should be formulated according to the specific situation.
4. Allow children to choose the learning style that suits them.
Every child likes different ways of learning. Some students like to strengthen their knowledge through discussion, while others like to study independently and think quietly. Other children like to help them remember English words by word formation, while some students are good at increasing their vocabulary by reading.
5. Be good at discovering children's potential and pay attention to training.
However, it should be noted that children's primary and secondary school stage is the stage of laying a foundation, and they should not blindly pursue "expertise" and "specialty", but should make use of their own strengths and advantages to make up for their own shortcomings and deficiencies as much as possible in order to achieve all-round development.
6. Find the right entry point according to your child's hobbies.
Guide children For children who like idolization, we can explain to them how the stars are successful, thus stimulating the children's enterprising heart; For children with strong personality and self-control, they can make their own relevant regulations, so that children can feel respected and consciously abide by them; For children who are relatively weak in self-control, but like to "wear a top hat" and are more obedient, they can be properly supervised by combining praise and punishment, so that children can develop good habits.
7. Create a psychological environment conducive to children's personalized learning.
We should respect children's individuality and hobbies, create a democratic and harmonious cultural atmosphere full of humanistic care, advocate individuality, pursue unique style and innovative spirit, put children in a pleasant psychological state, and promote their personalized learning. Don't blindly follow the trend for your vanity, regardless of whether your child has this interest or not, impose your will on your child and force your child to participate in various interest classes and learn various specialties.
Children begin to show personality characteristics at the age of 3 or 4. Some children are quick-witted, smart, but impatient, like rabbits; Some children are slow and persistent, like step-by-step turtles, giving different education to children with different personalities.
Impatience —— The Educational Rule of Rabbits
Such children are generally smart-minded, and when they are with children of the same age, they can obviously show the characteristics of agility and flexibility, and can stand out from many small partners. But they have a fatal shortcoming, which is lack of endurance.
For impatient children, if they don't train hard, they are likely to become poor students who can't sit still in class and are prone to desertion.
Rule 1: Consciously carry out compulsory endurance training.
Endurance training can start with physical exercise. Jogging is basically suitable for all healthy children over 4 years old. Of course, the specific training time and intensity must be determined according to the child's physical condition, but parents must persist. Only by perseverance can we achieve the ideal effect.
Rule 2: Cultivate children's particularity in a way that interests them.
To improve attention, we must first start with their interests. Younger children generally like to play games, so parents should grasp their competitive psychology at this time. Some children also like painting or reading books. Parents can also train their children to work longer hours through these methods, thus improving their attention.
Rule 3: Give appropriate encouragement.
Babies are generally impatient, and it is very easy to give up if one thing is not done well. Therefore, at this time, parents must choose games or housework that are quite difficult according to the actual situation, and encourage their children to try not to blame and attack when they make mistakes.
Slow temper-the educational rule of turtle baby
This kind of baby is not stupid, but calm in temperament and slow in behavior. Children who are slow to respond rarely lose their temper and get along well with others, but their introversion and inarticulate are their major shortcomings.
Rule 1: the magical use of encouragement
Encouragement is the best treatment. Because of introversion, such children are generally more sensitive. They like to keep everything in their hearts and gradually become an indelible knot. Encouragement and attention can help your baby rebuild confidence and gain strength and courage to cope with life setbacks.
Rule 2: Let him do things freely and train his speed.
Let them finish what they set in a given time, and let them understand that it is not enough to do a good job, and they must finish it within the specified time to be qualified.
Rule 3: Take him to a public place and encourage him to associate with others.
Encouraging communication is an important principle in educating such babies. As we all know, people can not only have fun, but also get knowledge, information and other resources.