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I don't trust strangers more and more. Why?
This is a normal psychological phenomenon. Although we are born naive and don't doubt others, as we grow older, we gradually mature, know the viciousness of society and people's hearts, so we can't trust strangers because we all want to protect ourselves.

Some social factors lead us to think that strangers are not trustworthy. I remember a lively topic a few years ago, that is, the old man fell on the road. Can we help him or not? Too many facts misunderstood by old people make us afraid to trust strangers any more, and let us begin to doubt how ugly human nature is. The population quality in today's society is constantly improving. However, due to China's large population base, it is difficult for many people with low morality to appear around us, stealing mobile phones, wallets and even robbing in broad daylight, which makes us question the public security management of this society. I had the experience that my mobile phone was stolen. At that time, I got on a bus. After I put in a coin, I reached for my mobile phone, only to find that it was gone. At that time, I was confused on the spot, because I didn't expect this kind of thing to happen to me. At that time, I immediately borrowed my friend's mobile phone to call the police, but I don't know if it was because they were irresponsible or because there were too many people stealing mobile phones. Their attitude was to ignore me and impatiently told me to let me know if there was any news and not to register me. I was disheartened at that time. When stealing a mobile phone, the stranger and the receptionist of the public security bureau are strangers, and their attitudes are similar. The trust between people is erased in this way, which makes us distrust strangers around us more and more.

We have been deceived by strangers or friends around us have been deceived by strangers, which will also make us gradually stop trusting strangers around us. I remember when I was a freshman, my roommate was cheated by a stranger, but the way of cheating was very dirty. The swindler stole my friend's mobile phone number and sent a message to my roommate saying that he wanted to borrow some money. Because my roommate had a good relationship with that friend, I remitted the money to him without thinking. After being cheated, he was depressed for a long time. From then on, he never trusted any strangers, even people around him. This is an experience of being deceived by strangers, which makes a person gradually stop trusting strangers.

In fact, we are more concerned about things that are cheated, things that are cheated by strangers. In fact, there are still many good people in society. We should not trust strangers easily, but we don't necessarily think that strangers are all bad people.