It is true that parents think that only beating and scolding their children can make their dutiful sons obey. In fact, this simple and rude education method distorts the child's personality and seriously hurts the child's self-esteem and sense of shame. As adults, they may become inferior, irritable, anxious and withdrawn. If the child is disobedient, parents should change their thinking to guide the child.
Discover the advantages of children.
What do most parents say the most? What do you think of other children? , completely denied the advantages of children, although I love children very much, but I can't tell the advantages of children, but I can tell a lot of shortcomings and completely ignore the bright spots in children. Parents, as their children's first teachers, must set an example, and children will copy the whole package of learning.
Gradually turn disadvantages into advantages.
Cultivate children's interest through some small games, such as children's poor independence, and they like to rely on their parents for everything. Parents can play games with their children to see who can dress quickly and tidy up the room. When children finish independently, they must be rewarded and let them feel the joy of labor.
Parents should always encourage their children, which can not only cultivate their independence and self-confidence, but also better strengthen their own advantages. We should not be limited to their achievements, but should develop and cultivate them in an all-round way, observe their advantages from them, praise them if they have achievements, and let them realize their own advantages, so that they will do better.