1, talk to children more. The biggest feature of modern parents is "busy". Dad is busy, mom is busy, and what capable professional women often say at home is to urge their children to take a bath, eat, do their homework, and hurry up ... (Hint: this article is about "Family Education Channel Shishi Children's Wear", and "Sharing and Win-Win" is our aim; "Sharing family education experience and growing up with children" is our wish. Please leave a link for reprinting, thank you! When you are busy and anxious, how can you have time and mood to chat with your children? However, if you don't talk to your child much, how do you know what he is thinking and wants to do? A wise mother, no matter how busy she is, will find time to chat with her children, have a warm parent-child dialogue, listen to his thoughts more, reason with him at an appropriate time and give him immediate and appropriate discipline. Frequent contact and chatting with children can let him know what is right and what is wrong. When a child makes a mistake, there will naturally be a restraining force in his heart. Knowing that his parents told him not to do this, the wrong thing would not happen. (Hint: This article is about "Family Education Channel Shishi Children's Wear", and "Sharing and Win-Win" is our aim; "Sharing family education experience and growing up with children" is our wish. Please leave a link for reprinting, thank you! Patiently listen to the children's complaints, let the children feel concerned and warm, so as to be closer and more respectful to their parents. This will help children tell their parents what they think and help parents give targeted guidance. 2, learn to listen to the children's words Most people are used to talking, not used to obedient, especially when parents face their children, they are even more talkative, hoping that he is an "obedient" child. (Hint: This article is about "Family Education Channel Shishi Children's Wear", and "Sharing and Win-Win" is our aim; "Sharing family education experience and growing up with children" is our wish. Please leave a link for reprinting, thank you! How do you know what a child is thinking unless you listen to him? If you don't listen to your child, how can you understand and discipline him? Therefore, if parents want to have an obedient child, they must first "listen" to the child. It is not difficult to form the habit of listening to children, just tell yourself to "mind your mouth". When the child is telling a story, you should try not to interrupt, just nod, smile or encourage him to go on with simple words from time to time. When a child finds that his parents are interested in listening to his "story", he will also be interested in telling it to you. There is a 6-year-old child who has just returned to his parents from his grandmother's house. One day, his mother fried a plate of eggs and served them on the table. Then she went to the kitchen to continue frying other dishes. When her mother came to the table again, the child had eaten all the eggs. But his mother didn't scold him, only said to him, "How can you eat all the eggs by yourself?" The child didn't say a word, but quietly shed tears. Mother asked, "Why are you such a child? I didn't scold you. Why are you crying? " Only after asking did I know that when he was at his grandmother's house, the more he ate, the happier his grandmother was and praised him. She never told him that when others don't eat, he can't finish it. After the mother told the child, the child knew that doing things should be considerate of others. If parents blindly blame and don't communicate with their children, they will only make their children feel wronged and get no education, especially older children. Children are children after all, and their thinking is simple and naive. At this time, parents must not jump to conclusions, despise or laugh at him, but listen carefully to his ideas and discuss solutions with him. (Hint: This article is about "Family Education Channel Shishi Children's Wear", and "Sharing and Win-Win" is our aim; "Sharing family education experience and growing up with children" is our wish. Please leave a link for reprinting, thank you! ) From the sound, parents know how he gets along with teachers and classmates at school, who he secretly loves in class, which classmate has the habit of bullying and which subject he hates most ... 3. Encourage and reason instead of scolding children for saying "I'm too lazy to care about you". When children treat their parents with this attitude, they are actually disappointed with their parents for a long time. Because, for a long time, he didn't communicate well with his parents and simply "didn't talk". Why is there poor communication? Maybe he used to like chatting with his parents, but he often got scolded as soon as he spoke, and he didn't want to talk after a long time. Children tell the truth, even if it is absurd sometimes, parents should not make fun of it, let alone blame it. Parents should allow their children to express their opinions and make them realize that their opinions are valued by their parents. (Hint: This article is about "Family Education Channel Shishi Children's Wear", and "Sharing and Win-Win" is our aim; "Sharing family education experience and growing up with children" is our wish. Please leave a link for reprinting, thank you! ) When children grow up, it is inevitable that they will do something wrong and say the wrong thing. Parents should patiently enlighten him and let him really realize his mistakes. When parents talk to their children, they should not only hold an equal and friendly attitude, but also be full of love as parents. To change children, you must first change yourself. 4. Cultivate common hobbies Many parents and children get along with each other day and night, but they don't know their children. If you don't understand your child's thoughts, it is difficult to effectively guide your child to grow into the person you want. Parents can communicate with their children by cultivating their common hobbies, such as playing chess, listening to music, watching football matches and swimming. (Hint: This article is about "Family Education Channel Shishi Children's Wear", and "Sharing and Win-Win" is our aim; "Sharing family education experience and growing up with children" is our wish. Please leave a link for reprinting, thank you! ) Always talk and laugh with your children after work, cultivate interest and share happiness. It is natural for parents to get close to their children and gain their trust before they can pour out their thoughts. Only those who are considered the closest are willing to talk openly without scruple.