What is a good family education? In today's society, good family education is particularly important. Whether for the children's own development or for their future contribution to society, a good tutor is very important. So what kind of education can be called good family education? Let's share with you what a good family education is.

What is good family education 1 good family education = good parents+good family environment+good parent-child relationship.

Home is a child's first university, and parents are a child's first teacher. Parents' diet and daily life, words and deeds, and cultural and artistic accomplishment will all be passed on to their children. Every day, the atmosphere at home, the contact of the main family members, the habits of daily life, the family's attitude towards children, the comments on various things of social development, the family's outlook on life, life values, values, and the family's belief and pursuit of perfection will always create the child's heart.

A teacher in Britain, many children have achieved great success in cultural education. He talked about two ways: First, try to eat with children, and the time for eating is very relaxed, so that we can communicate as soon as possible. Second, don't put the TV in the children's house. Contemporary people watch TV plays not less but too much. Sometimes a moderate life will be beneficial to children's development.

I introduce the feelings of a parent and a child to share resources with you.

"Everyone stipulates that children should abide by the regulations of colleges and teachers and strictly manage themselves in daily life. For example, people never violate traffic rules when driving. When crossing the road or driving, there are no timely police and surveillance cameras, and there will be no red lights or illegal parking. That not only ensures safety, but more importantly, it is necessary to set an example and educate children to learn to be cautious and independent from an early age. With or without supervision, they must define themselves with the ruler of social morality and conscience! " This parent's child is excellent and was admitted to Harvard University with excellent results.

Another student recalled his parents like this: "When I was young, they were extremely strict about one thing and discussed many family rules with me. Once I break this agreement, my father will definitely drive me to obey the rules without hesitation. I admire my parents very much, because they are not only strict in one thing, but also set an example. Family rules are just as reasonable for them. Reading and learning are the keynote of their daily life. When my mother was 43 years old, she was still studying the course content of training senior statisticians, and successfully obtained this technical title, which shaped a model for me to learn for life and constantly surpass myself. Under such danger, I can not only guarantee not to lose myself, but also be tenacious in greed. I can also guarantee that I will not stop moving forward, will not forget my obligations, and set an example for others. "

Parent-child relationship that should be prevented

What parent-child relationships should be prevented?

At first, it was very cold. The indifferent parent-child relationship is not only bad for children's development, but also bad for their health. Home should be a warm and happy harbor for children.

The second is alienation. There are two kinds of alienated parent-child relationship: one is to spend less time with children, that is, to be alienated in life; The other is less communication with children, that is, inner alienation.

Again, it's harsh. It is not good to strictly regulate the parent-child relationship of children. Sometimes it is very easy to treat people sincerely, but it is not so easy to really ensure that children are treated with tolerance. On the other hand, it is not good to cover up and spoil children. Paying attention to children and releasing them does not mean that they can be presumptuous.

In addition, there is a bad parent-child relationship that is distrust, which is reflected in the thinking, interrogation and suspicion of children. There is no denying that everything should be prevented in family education.

Excellent parent-child relationship

What is a good parent-child relationship? Parents should attach importance to their children, care for them, trust them, attach importance to them, encourage them to communicate fairly with them, always be full of hope for them, and push them to develop in the right direction and grow together with them.

Self-regulation of parents' psychological state is a key part of daily life. Children are independent people with independent personality and self-esteem. Children will grow up by themselves, just like trees. Everyone watered and fertilized it, but it couldn't replace it. In the future, children will have to devote themselves to social development and create their own works, which is irreplaceable by everyone, including parents. Children's childhood life is not only a preparation for future life, but also has a separate use value.

When children encounter difficulties and troubles, parents are most needed. At this time, it is very important to ease, persuade and promote the development of children, and it will also make children's psychological state more and more open to the outside world.

Children's happiness is inseparable from a healthy psychological state. The mental state of physical and mental health should be perfected in the same natural environment as spring. The love between father and son and mother and daughter is the life of cultural education and the spiritual wealth of children's happy growth. Mom and dad love their children. In addition, they should know how to love their children wisely, give them overall care, give them a good emotional and natural environment, and be harmonious. If you don't love well and blame too much, you can't produce harmony. We must understand and respect harmony and educate children in a way that children can recognize and accept. Instruct children specifically and do not manipulate them; There are rules in daily life, allowing children to have their own opinions; Appreciate children's consciousness and shape their sense of mission; Praise encourages children's ability to work, rather than cultivating children's dependence on personal behavior; Giving children time and space to develop at will, and paying attention to their physical health and moral cultivation … these are the plastic arts of culture and education that must be constantly felt.

What is a good family education? 2. Five principles of family education.

1, good parents are learned.

2 1 century, the information society requires more and more people's quality, and any post needs training and assessment. However, it seems that only children are born, and without education, it seems that they will automatically find jobs and will never be laid off. In fact, this understanding is wrong. Everyone should learn relevant knowledge before becoming a parent. The sooner you prepare your awareness and knowledge of how to be a parent, the better.

An excellent mother even said: Many people think I am relaxed and say that your children are so excellent that I don't need your care at all. As we all know, I even sleep with one eye open at night!

2. Good children are taught.

What excellent parents have in common is that they spend a lot of time on educating their children. Some people may say that so many parents can't read a word, isn't it also educating their children? In fact, illiteracy is not uneducated, and these parents are also experts in educating their children. The mother of Ann Jin Peng, the gold medal winner of the world middle school students' Mathematical Olympiad, never graduated from junior high school, but let her children learn four operations by heart before going to primary school. How many parents who graduated from college can do this?

3. Good habits are cultivated.

In fact, most of children's habits-good or bad-are cultivated by our parents intentionally or unintentionally. My parents have been teaching so much that they don't realize that they are teaching. This is "hidden education", which is much more powerful than "explicit education" and is also essential.

Most excellent children are the result of quality education, while problem children is the product of problem families. Most of the children's problems are not caused by the children themselves, but reflect the parents' problems. Parents are often the biggest maker of children's problems and the biggest obstacle for children to correct their mistakes and shortcomings. The urgent task is not to educate children, but to educate parents. Without the change of parents, there will be no change of children.

4. Good communication is all heard.

Most excellent parents do well in these aspects, and their good communication comes from consciously following these three steps. The first step is to listen, that is, let the children speak out and understand the true meaning of their words. The second step is understanding, that is, whether it makes sense to think from the child's point of view, and the result is often reasonable. The third step is advice, that is, a reasonable child may not be able to take the right action. At this time, parents should give advice.

5. Good grades are made.

Intelligence is not the most important thing. What is more important than intelligence is will. What is more important than will is morality. What is more important than morality is a person's mind and ambition.

The most important factors, such as will, morality and mind, are not through "explicit education" such as parents' preaching, but through parents' behavior, that is, "implicit education", which is transformed into children's flesh and blood, so as to produce results. Therefore, when children stand on their parents' shoulders, they can walk as far and as high as their parents.