1. Fathers often make children feel safe and form healthy emotional reactions.
In the process of playing games with his father, children's exuberant activity and strong curiosity can be satisfied to the greatest extent, and children can experience great excitement and pleasure. Therefore, I have a strong attachment to my father, and my father has become the most important security support for children besides my mother.
2. Father has a considerable influence on the formation of children's sense of accomplishment and intelligence level.
Many studies have proved that successful celebrities are often very close to their fathers. On the contrary, the relationship with low achievement is more alienated. In other words, children who have more opportunities to actively communicate with their fathers have higher IQ and more developed intelligence, and this effect is more obvious in boys than in girls.
3. Father plays an important role in children's personality and social development.
Compared with children who have lost their father in their early years, have little contact with their father or have a cold relationship, children who have close contact with their father are more likely to maintain good relations with others, have a satisfactory attitude towards their surroundings, and have more confidence in their academic and career success as adults.
4. The role of fathers in shaping children's gender roles.
Gender roles are of great significance in the development of children's mental health. When children reach a certain age, if they can't identify with their own gender psychologically, it is easy to have gender identity obstacles after reaching a certain level.
If we don't correct the gender identity barriers in time, we are more likely to have psychological problems such as homosexuality and transsexuality when we grow up, which will have a great impact on our later life.
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The practice of a good father
First, at the key node of children's development, the father should grasp the overall situation of principle.
When children face new groups and new problems for the first time, such as their birthdays, joining a league, attending primary schools, junior high schools and senior high schools, fathers should intervene and give guidance in an appropriate and acceptable way to help children master principles and grasp the overall situation.
Second, in the process of children's growth, fathers should plan ahead in time.
Parents, especially fathers, should give their children forward-looking guidance: to understand the problems that children may have at every age; It is necessary to predict the possible problems of children from the environment in which children interact; It is necessary to predict the problems that children may encounter from the related phenomena that have occurred in society. Educate children in advance and give early warning.
Third, in the process of children's growth, fathers should strengthen their responsibilities.
Fathers should cultivate children's sense of responsibility from an early age. Of course, children have different responsibilities at different ages. When children enter middle school, their father should let them know that they will be responsible for their families in the future. Let's not say that we should take social responsibility and win glory for our country. Just from the family's point of view, we should also let the children understand that we must make a difference to the family.