Learn to be a loyal listener and listen to your child patiently, so that he will open his heart to you. Don't talk to children, turn them into your endless preaching.

Lesson 2: Focus.

Do you want children? Don't fight. Don't drink too much. Don't you hope their academic performance is not a mess? The best way is to know more about children.

Lesson 3: Norms

Make rules for children and let them know which behaviors and qualities are important.

Lesson 4: Constraints

A child who has no sense of discipline will inevitably hit a wall when he grows up in society, and he may pay the price for it all his life. Parents should cultivate their children's sense of discipline from an early age.

Lesson 5: Intuition

Sometimes you may blindly imitate other people's rules. There are many reasons: maybe your children want you to do this, or maybe you have to do it because of face. If you find yourself a little doting on your children, take responsibility as soon as possible.

Lesson 6: Praise

Children need your encouragement, which will give them a sense of accomplishment; But too much praise will make them feel that every little thing they do deserves praise. If they don't get it, they will be hit hard and may eventually blame you.

Lesson 7: Peacekeeping

It is normal for brothers and sisters to fight. What you have to do is to end their quarrel at once and tell the children that this kind of behavior is not desirable. Teach children to communicate in civilized language, and don't attack each other with fists and insults.

Lesson 8: Prestige

Families need a democratic atmosphere, but sometimes some children's ideas are inevitably immature, unreasonable and selfish. In this case, if you are led by your child and can't make a decisive decision, you will lose your prestige in the child's heart for a long time.

Lesson 9: Let Go

For some unimportant problems, let the children deal with them themselves. Trust your intuition, children can handle these things.