1, actively guide children

It is very important to guide a 9-year-old child correctly at this age. Adults should not easily lose their temper with their children, communicate calmly and guide him in which direction. They can also encourage him, give him confidence according to his preferences, and supervise him not to go astray. Strict and caring are the same, so that children can thrive. Children of this age are naughty, so parents should not take care of them deliberately, but only ask them to develop good habits in life and study, which will benefit them for life.

2. Cultivate children's sense of responsibility

Let children know what they should do and what is better or better. Some children lack training and exercise in this field, and he may be relaxed, but unless he is particularly smart, it is difficult for him to be very handsome. Only down-to-earth people can have a better hope of making steady progress and making continuous achievements and progress.

3. Accompanying children is independent

Let children know independence, cultivate their own opinions and consciousness, and guide them to distinguish right from wrong. If they make mistakes outside, they must criticize them in time instead of indulging them blindly. We should cultivate their independence, because children will not always be with us, and they have their own way to go. As parents, we should teach them skills when they are still young, so that they can grow up more steadily.

4. Fully respect children's hobbies.

Everyone will have their own hobbies, and parents should never force their children to study because of their hobbies. When children are interested in things other than homework, it is unwise to block them blindly. The best way is to transfer your interest in sports, literature, art and collection to study according to the situation. And parents should encourage them to do anything that is conducive to the healthy growth of body and mind.

Step 5 wait patiently

The harvest of crops needs the nourishment of soil, rain and dew, hard maintenance and so on. The growth of children also needs the correct companionship and guidance from the family, the patient education of teachers and the correct influence from the social environment. Really accept children, love children, trust children, and wait patiently for children to bloom.