Don't let freedom go too far and neglect the discipline of children. "Funnel education" makes education balanced? First, try "funnel education" to find the balance point of education. We should release children's brains, hands and feet, indoor space and time, so that students can get a stable life and get a real education from a stable life. Children's development must be random. In the process of educating children, how to cultivate their independence and self-reliance without limiting their professional skills and level has become a common problem for parents.

American writer Gary Ai Zhuoming did point out that when children are young, parents can give them little freedom. With the rapid development of children's personality and the further enhancement of their sense of mission, parents should slowly try to let go. Gary called this core idea "funnel education".

With the rapid development of economic globalization, social informatization and popularization of education, many parents are keeping up with the trend of the times and constantly upgrading their parenting concepts so that their children can win at the starting line. We are in the interpersonal conflict between strict supervision of children and giving them freedom. Perhaps "funnel education" is a good method.

Second, how to implement "funnel education"? 1. Choosing the appropriate punishment method is not clear, and Pepsi can't; If the punishment is clear, the Quartet will work. Parents should choose the right way of rewards and punishments. When the child does the right thing, parents can prepare small gifts for the child in advance, so that the child can slowly embark on the right growth path. If children don't understand and do something wrong, parents can punish them by reducing the length of games and watching TV.

Don't give in just because the child is crying. Children cry when they make mistakes. Then we need to comfort the child when he is crying, but don't let the child feel that this is correct. If we indulge our children blindly, they will start sobbing as soon as they make mistakes. If parents treat their children as mistakes, they will sob to forgive them in the future.

Children will feel that they are not wrong, and when they make mistakes in the future, they will cry to face their own problems. Giving in because of the child's crying is not conducive to the child's development and development, and will also have a bad impact on the child's development.

3. With "love" as the end point of cultivation, parents' love is never lacking. At the level of children's education, we should take "love" as the end of training. Regardless of whether the child's handling method is correct or not, after the scientific and reasonable education and effective and correct guidance of our parents, everyone will teach the child some short stories about love, so that the child can truly understand that love is a great thing in the world. Use our love to influence children, use our love to educate children, and let children grow up healthily and happily in the care of harmonious parents.