After reading Understanding Children 1 Before talking about Understanding Children, it suddenly occurred to me that when I was in primary school, our head teacher told us to "turn a deaf ear to things outside the window". For example, some books say that some children can concentrate on reading in noisy environment. When I was a child, I tried to eliminate the surrounding interference, but in fact I tried many times without success. At that time, I felt that I was naturally easily disturbed, and I was troubled for a long time because I didn't have this ability.
These are some interesting memories of my childhood, but they really bothered me for some time. If I had a time machine, I should take the book Reading Children back to my primary school teacher. There is a space in the book to discuss the problem of children's "attention".
First of all, I don't deny that there are people with super concentration in the world, but that is definitely an example and doesn't apply to most people. It is difficult for us adults to concentrate on one thing for a long time, let alone children.
Obviously, it is unscientific to ask children to focus on one thing for a long time, because the "attention" of children aged 3-6 is mainly "unintentional attention", so they are easily disturbed by external factors. Children of this age are always like this. We can't go against the psychological characteristics of children in the process of growing up. As for those unrealistic demands, you will only be tired of yourself.
However, it is observed that children's attention in class is also very different. Some children are more likely to concentrate on one thing, while others need constant reminding. This is individual difference, but we can't deny the influence of environmental factors on children's concentration.
In fact, it is easy for us to judge for ourselves what is important in life and interrupt what children are doing. For example, when children are absorbed in reading, it is time to eat. Parents usually think that eating is more important and will interrupt him. In fact, this has a great influence on children's concentration. Experts suggest that children should be allowed to complete one thing while focusing, and other things can be postponed slightly.
At the same time, we need to provide a favorable environment for children to concentrate in some activities. I found that the child was very focused when he started doing something, but when the teacher started talking in class, the child began to be distracted. It can be seen from the above two points that environmental factors also affect children's "attention".
At the end of the chapter, some simple and interesting parents and children are recommended, which shows that children's concentration can still be cultivated through training.
Read children's reflections II. Reading children, starting from the teacher's side, starting from some common phenomena, common views and controversial issues, has unique views, always tells the crux of the problem and puts forward practical solutions, which has played a good role in guiding and drawing lessons from teachers' teaching work.
Some brilliant theories in the book left a deep impression on me. From this, I realized the magical function of praise; Experience the joy of thinking; Knowing that tolerance is also a kind of spirit ... It is very important for every teacher to learn to adjust his mentality, enjoy life and relax himself appropriately.
How to adjust ourselves and deal with the relationship between work and life, I found the answer in the book: "As long as we open all our senses and give ourselves a short leisure every day, there will be infinite scenery in ordinary bits and pieces, as long as you calm down and savor it." Yes, the teacher has to unload himself. Enjoy life.
"When encountering difficulties, if we retreat ... we will give up the rare experience of life. If we face difficulties bravely ... every teacher can get unexpected opportunities in solving difficulties. The further you go, the more opportunities you have. "
I think of myself from this. Facing the fresh little life, I really feel at a loss, confused and afraid. However, cowardice and evasion cannot solve the problem. As an educator, only by taking difficulties as opportunities can we gain a sense of success in our career from the process of solving difficulties.
No matter what kind of children they face, teachers should think from the children's standpoint. Every one of them also needs to be respected and cared for! Faced with the neglect of any child, it may cause irreparable harm to the child. "
Teachers' love for students is very important, and this kind of love should be felt by students, so as to turn the position opposite to students into the same position. Our language and behavior must be based on respecting and treating students well, so that students can recognize you more, accept you and respect you at the same time. Isn't a good teacher-student relationship based on mutual respect?
As teachers, children need our care and care, and reading is the foundation. Let's work hard for this!
Reflections on "Reading Children" 3 Summer School recommended a book called "Reading Children" to us.
After reading it, many stories deeply touched me and found that there are many things worth learning!
I think these stories start from the teacher's side, starting from some common phenomena, common views and controversial issues. They have unique views and can always tell the crux of the problem and put forward practical solutions, which has played a good role in guiding and drawing lessons from my teaching.
From this, I feel how important it is for teachers to have their own spiritual space; Recognize the magical function of praise; Experience the joy of thinking; Knowing that tolerance is also a spirit. Some brilliant theories in the book left a deep impression on me. It is very important for every teacher to learn to adjust his mind, enjoy life and relax himself properly.
"What if we meet with difficulties and retreat? We will not only give up the rare experience of life, but also give up our right to exist. If we face up to the difficulties, every teacher can get unexpected opportunities in solving them. The further you go, the more opportunities you have. " Indeed, only by taking difficulties as opportunities can we gain a sense of success in our career from the process of solving difficulties.
The book says: "Teachers should stand in the position of children and think with love. As a primary school teacher, I face all kinds of children, but no matter what kind of children I face? Every child among them also needs respect and care! The negligence of any child may cause irreparable or even lifelong harm to the child! " Teachers' reading and learning can not only improve their self-cultivation, but also bring great benefits to their education and teaching. A good book will benefit them for life.
Reflections on "reading children" 4. I came across this book, called Reading Children. After reading it, I was deeply moved by many stories and contents, and found that there are many places worth learning!
I think these stories are all based on teachers, starting with some common phenomena, common views and controversial issues. They have unique views and can always tell the crux of the problem and put forward practical solutions, which has played a good role in guiding and drawing lessons from our teaching.
From this, I feel how important it is to have my own understanding of children and realize the magical role of praise; Experience the joy of thinking; Knowing that tolerance is also a kind of spirit ... some incisive theories in the book left a deep impression on me. It is very important for every teacher to learn to adjust his mentality, look at events from a rational point of view and relax himself appropriately. How to adjust yourself and handle the relationship between work and life? Teachers should learn to enjoy life, so as to carry out education with a better attitude.
The book says: "Teachers should think from the perspective of loving children. As a kindergarten teacher, I face all kinds of children, but no matter what kind of children I face. Every child among them also needs respect and care!
In the face of any child's neglect, it may cause irreparable or even lifelong harm to the child! Teachers' continuous learning can not only improve their self-cultivation, but also bring great benefits to their education and teaching. Continuing their studies will benefit them for life.
5. After reading The Understanding Child, I had a copy of The Understanding Child (0-6 years old) before it was published in school. After reading it, as a mother with two children at this stage, she gave me good guidance and reference. I think this book provides a comprehensive and systematic parenting method with strong operability, and many cases and handling methods are worth learning by our parents.
Later, the Education Bureau allocated children (12- 18 years old) according to the study period, which made me feel more interested. As an educator at this stage, reading this book is more helpful to master the physiological and psychological changes of students, so as to better cultivate children into middle school students who can learn, love learning, have mental health and have good personality. So I often read books in my spare time.
It is understood that many famous people have a high opinion of this book. "Reading children" is a compulsory course for parents, just like the user manual. Reading this book is like listening to many psychologists "explain" the research results of psychology, so that parents and friends can know their children better and "understand" them. This book is different from many previous family education books, and it is not an expert's parenting experience. A single experience is often accidental, and the successful experience of educating a child by individuals is often difficult to be replicated by thousands of parents in Qian Qian. Only education that follows the universal law of children's growth can have real vitality and portability; Great education comes from a little unfamiliar vocabulary, and growing pains need to be treated scientifically. This book often uses easy-to-understand and illustrated expressions to guide parents to solve their children's growth problems at different stages.
Facts have proved that this book written by Professor Bian has been favored by many different social levels and benefited a lot from reading this book, including me.
Reading children, starting from teachers and parents, starting from some common phenomena, common views and controversial issues, has a unique point of view, always tells the key and crux of the problem, puts forward practical solutions on how to adjust the parent-child relationship, and plays a good role in guiding and drawing lessons from teachers' teaching work. As long as we teachers are willing to effectively change roles, hold the belief of all for students, all for students and all for students, draw closer the relationship between teachers and students from the perspective of students, update the concept of educating people, and strive to improve our own educational level, then the middle school students we cultivate must be compound talents with noble morality, sound personality, thinking and ability, so as not to live up to the reputation given to us by society.
I bought the book "Reading Children" a long time ago after reading "Reading Children", and I have only read it intermittently until now. I reflect on myself and my family while watching, and sometimes I cry for the examples in the book, which somehow touches a certain point in my heart, but I haven't noticed it yet. The arrival of this book is like a timely rain. When I am faced with the feeling that my children and family have nowhere to put, let me calm down and give me guidance. So I always want to read it slowly and seriously to better understand the truth in the book.
What impressed me most was the five laws mentioned in the book, each of which emerged as a fragment of life. The principle of wholeness has taught me how to respect and made me reflect on my attitude towards children and family. Sometimes it's too strong and overbearing. It is like a bright light, guiding my progress. The law of sequence makes me see more about the position of my lover and children in my heart, as well as the present situation of my small family and the problems between husband and wife, so that children begin to occupy our main position. I am glad to meet this book in time and find out the problems I am facing now, so as to improve as soon as possible. The law of balance gave me more guidance, and I began to calmly face some problems that were entangled in my heart, which changed my view on some unfair things at home. The change of thought has brought about the change of interpersonal relationship in life, treating problems objectively and calmly, respecting facts, bringing the flow of emotions, and the pictures in life are more and more harmonious. I think this is the biggest gain brought by this book.
Some of the problems mentioned in the book are similar in life. Everything about children can be found in the family system. If I haven't experienced the family map, I will feel amazing and incredible. I made my own family diagram, and after explaining it, I will feel the influence of the family system on a person's life. Whether for myself or for my children, I think it is better to get in touch with my family, reconcile with my family, and respect laws and systems in order to get a better self.