1. Praise children through the mouth of a third party "Praise through the mouth of a third party" was originally a term in social etiquette. Because the expression through the third party makes people feel more objective and convincing. Although children are young, they also know that praise in person contains polite elements. 2. Speak in a gentle tone. Think back, in parent-child conversation, do most parents yell at their children when they are disobedient? What's more, they began to touch their hands ... At this time, remember that parents should learn to control their emotions and calm their mentality. Excuse me, which child in the world can still be full of joy in the face of parents' reprimand? If parents can't control their emotions well, their tone can't be softened, and the parent-child dialogue at this time is meaningless! When you talk to your child in a gentle tone, the conversation environment becomes relaxed and harmonious. Children will have a sense of equality and respect, and then they can seriously think about what they think and do and be willing to express their opinions. In this way, conversation will get twice the result with half the effort! 3. Let the children know what is wrong in time. Anyone can make mistakes, let alone children. Parents should not bear the brunt of children's mistakes, such as "I have told you many times, don't …" and "Why don't you remember …". The child may give in to the pressure of his parents and admit his mistake for fear of panic, but in fact he doesn't know where he is wrong. At this time, parents need to be rational, and it is the best policy to help children point out mistakes in time. 4, timely correct the child's bad life details In the child's childhood, there are always some small details such as picking your nostrils.