1, listen. If the child is unreasonable and loses his temper, he needs to listen to the child's psychological feelings first, and don't rush to refute and suppress. In the process of venting emotions, it will help them gradually calm down. In the process of children telling, pay attention to analyze the main problems and think about whether they can be solved.

Children are at an important stage of psychological and physical development, and we should not ignore their psychology. We should communicate with children more, listen to their thoughts and understand their true inner state more comprehensively.

2. distinguish. It is necessary to distinguish children's views on things and make them aware of the blind spots in the process of communication with children.

Step 3 ask questions. In the process of interacting with children, in addition to passively receiving information, it is also necessary to directly capture information, ask questions and conduct in-depth exchanges.

4. Spiritual support. Children sometimes encounter "good thoughts can't be rewarded well" or even malicious returns, and they are in injustice and pain. In view of this situation, we should support children spiritually and help them get rid of their pain. There is also to help children accept and grasp the reality, and at the same time correct their wishes in time, instead of complaining and complaining.

5. Education and guidance. Children's bad psychological mood is caused by ignorance and disgust of what they see and hear. This requires parents to give timely education to help children distinguish right from wrong. There is also to let children get along with others with respect, trust, tolerance and understanding.

Teach children to control their emotions.

1, when the child has emotions, allow the child to release emotions and vent them; It's better to cry than stop it, and I'll hit you if you cry again. Very annoying.

When children are emotional, parents can take their children to exercise and take a walk outdoors to encourage them to vent, instead of using rude language and behavior to stop them.

2. Make good use of parent-child time for counseling. Parents should talk to their children for fifteen minutes every day, first praise their good behavior, and then let them think about whether they have impulsive behavior that day. Then parents can discuss ways to control impulsive behavior with their children and guide them to improve their behavior from reflection.

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