However, children are such shows, but there are many behind them. Xixi's father is doing course training. So Xixi was asked by his father to learn all kinds of theoretical knowledge from the age of 3, and we can't help but sigh. I'm afraid we adults can't do it. Such a young child can persist in reciting and repeating over and over again.
In life, gifted children who are admitted to universities as teenagers are rare. In order to keep their children ahead of their peers, parents always try their best, and of course, there will be cases of "pulling out seedlings to help others". In the eyes of parents. It is something to be proud of that children are gifted in some way. Some parents will distinguish their education from other children in order to fully display their talents. For example, this kind of advanced placement education is a precaution for parents, and their children will have a bright future, but it is actually only their own one-man show.
To tell the truth, gifted children, with more training, will shine brilliantly in the future, which violates the normal education of children's natural growth and is to squander their good talents. They should have grown up carefree, but the heavy burden of study buried their innocence. As "prodigies", they need to surpass the learning progress of ordinary children. They can only be immersed in their studies, completely losing their freedom and having no hobbies and interests. They seem to have been turned on the fast-forward button, and a normal childhood has made the originally gifted children have negative psychology. This is the saddest thing when children have mental illness.
Many cases show that this kind of education will seriously damage the parent-child relationship. For the so-called success, parents deprived their children of their childhood, and studying day and night made them fall into self-doubt. They envy their peers for having fun, their personalities may become indifferent and paranoid, and they may hate their parents, thus breeding rebellious psychology. At that time, the situation will be very serious and uncontrollable.
This advanced educational model is usually based on the concept that "everything should make way for learning", including making friends. Parents always think that playing with classmates will only waste time, delay learning and start to limit children's social interaction. Gradually, they begin to lack the common language of their peers, unable to integrate into the group, and may be excluded by others.
Real education is to become an adult first, and then become a talent. Don't be eager for quick success, let children enjoy every stage of life. Every flower has its own flowering period, so it is a kind of happiness to care for it to grow sturdily, watch it grow slowly and accompany it through the storm and sunshine. All abilities need time to polish and precipitate. The real starting line is not grades and scores, but the healthy body and mind of children.