With the development of the Internet, it has brought us a lot of convenience. In order to communicate with every parent, teachers have established a "parent group". However, with the use of these years, some parents dislike the "parent group" more and more, and even have the idea of "quitting the group".

Case:

Since the teacher has established a "parent group", the original intention of establishing a "parent group" is that the teacher can communicate with every parent in time and feedback the situation of the child at school to the parents in time.

However, after several years of use, the "parent group" seems to have changed, even making many parents feel pressure and becoming what parents call "pressure group". With the "parent group" becoming more and more convenient to use, many teachers began to assign homework to parents from the parent group.

For example, parents have to help teachers help their children with their homework. Even some activities were distributed to parents from family groups, which caused many parents to complain. Some parents even said directly in the group that "parents have to go to work, and when they come back, they have to help their children correct their homework and even help their children study." So what do you want your teacher to do?

Even in the "parent group", there will be some parents who like "flattery". Every holiday or Teacher's Day, they will send blessings and red envelopes to teachers. Some parents even praise the teacher in different ways to please them, even what the teacher says. Such parents respond positively behind the scenes.

In this way, many parents are miserable, because the main purpose of the parent group is to exchange places where their children study, but now the "parent group" has become a "flattery group", which makes many parents feel very helpless.

At this time, a parent, because he went to work during the day and came back at night to help his children study, could not stand the pressure in the group and the teacher's "unreasonable" requirements, and chose to quit the group for a while.

The incident of "quitting the group" caused many parents' reactions, and was even named "parent group" by CCTV. Since this incident, the "parent group" has also been highly valued by the Ministry of Education and issued a management notice. Family groups that "torture people" may be dissolved, and parents can "take it seriously".

Analysis:

The "parent group" is going to be dissolved? The Ministry of Education issued this notice, which made parents happy.

Since the incident of "parents quitting" came to CCTV, the Ministry of Education has gradually paid attention to the problem of "parents quitting", and the Ministry of Education has also put forward the problem of "parents quitting", and issued "ten requirements".

One of the orders pointed out that "teachers are forbidden to ask parents to actively cooperate with schools or teachers to correct homework in various subjects, or to complete what teachers say is unreasonable", and also asked all localities to "cancel the parent group" according to the actual situation of their schools.

As soon as this news came out, many parents felt that the psychological pressure disappeared instantly, which made many parents feel relaxed.

After all, I'm tired after a day's work. How can I have time to correct my children's homework again? Some parents even bluntly said that children's homework should be corrected by teachers. For some parents with low educational level, it is even more difficult for them to correct their homework.

Parents also have different views on "canceling parent groups".

Parents 1: I am very happy if "the parent group can be cancelled", because some teachers not only ask parents to correct their homework, but even ask parents to learn to punch in the group at night and upload their children's study photos.

Parent 2: If "the parent group can really be cancelled", it is really "happiness". At least you don't have to stare at the parent group every day and criticize the children and parents in front of the whole class for fear of missing the news of the teacher.

Parent 3: Actually, I don't want the parent group to be cancelled, because if the parent group is cancelled, there will be no way to know the results of the children's school. After all, children's grades and notices can be let parents know in the group for the first time.

First, why do teachers become more and more "dependent" on their parents?

1 to facilitate communication with parents.

When there is no "parent group", if the school has any notice, or if the teacher has anything, students need to take it to the parents, and even some teachers need to call the parents one by one, which brings great inconvenience to the teachers.

Then there is a group of parents, and all parents will know what is going on at school and what kind of notice the teacher has, as long as a message is sent in the group.

The child has a poor memory.

When many teachers convey information to children and ask them to bring it to their parents, children often can't bring it, especially primary school students. If they can't express clearly, they will forget what the teacher told them, which will lead to parents not receiving important information.

3. Teachers should "let go" of education.

Now, parents attach great importance to their children's education. Therefore, many parents want their children to learn in advance before the knowledge progress reaches the teacher. Therefore, in order to reduce their "burden", some teachers will have "let go" education.

Xiaoyue's message: "Parents Group" is the place where teachers and parents discuss their children's learning. In addition to children's learning, the group should not publish anything other than learning.