1. Overindulgence and overprotection: Overindulgence and overprotection of children, without giving them proper autonomy and responsibility, may lead to children's lack of self-confidence and self-reliance.

2. Excessive criticism and punishment: overemphasizing mistakes and punishing children may lead to inferiority, fear and resistance.

3. Perfectionism and excessive demands: excessive pursuit of perfection and excessive demands on children may give children excessive pressure and anxiety and affect their self-esteem and mental health.

4. Comparison and competition: Children's excessive comparison with others, or encouraging children to pursue competition and success excessively, may have a negative impact on children's self-esteem, leading to emotional problems and unhealthy competitive mentality.

5. Ignoring emotion and communication: Ignoring children's emotional needs and feelings, lacking effective communication and emotional support may lead to loneliness, making it difficult to express emotions and establish healthy interpersonal relationships.

6. Lack of specific guidance: Lack of specific guidance and norms may lead to children's lack of clear direction and discipline, and no clear goals and plans for study and life.

The above ideas may be mistakes that parents are prone to make when educating their children. It is very important to recognize the disadvantages of these concepts and adjust them. Establish positive education methods, pay attention to balance, respect and understanding, and help children grow up healthily.