While parents are busy making a living, they must take time to learn more about their children, communicate with children, nannies and teachers, and try to fully grasp their children's performance in kindergartens and families. The more you know, the less you misunderstand. In this way, once the child is really disobedient, he will know more about how to guide the child.

Absorb new knowledge in education

As parents, we should be duty-bound to actively absorb new educational knowledge. In the traditional way of parenting education, most parents use authority to educate their children, and beating and scolding punishment is an important method of authoritative education. Absorbing new knowledge can help parents jump out of their own growth experience and adjust their educational concepts in time.

Listen to the child patiently.

Parents are advised to calm down first, try to be patient and ask their children what the reason is. When parents' minds have been focused on understanding their children's thoughts and trying to help them solve problems, they may find that their children's behaviors are actually excusable and release a lot of negative emotions.

Reasoning with children

In addition to the usual warnings, parents should also teach their children some truth in actual situations. Let the child have empathy, let him stand in the perspective of others and truly understand how his actions will affect others. As for the way of reasoning, the depth of explanation can be chosen according to the age of children, especially children can tell stories.