In fact, we can see from Miwa's past life experience that Miwa didn't realize the danger of the harem, let alone the invisible struggle, because she grew up spoiled and spoiled. The destruction of Huaihuai was the result of Wei Hou's doting, which led to the gradual decline of Chu from its peak.
However, after giving birth to a child, Yi Shu didn't realize Wei Hou's deficiency in raising children. On the contrary, she continued to follow Wei Hou's example and treat her wandering son in a caring way. As a result, Dangdang became arrogant and overbearing from an early age. He not only bullied the weak in the harem, but also once vilified court officials. However, Mi Yue is different. She doesn't spoil her son Ying Ji very much.
At first, Mi Yue just wanted Ying Ji to study hard and become a smart and sensible child. She doesn't ask much of him, and she doesn't want him to be a prince. Mi Yue spent more time with her children, Ying Ji, and guided Ying Ji on the right track step by step through entertainment and teaching. Mi Yue's educational methods not only improved her feelings for her children, but also made Ying Ji depend on her, because Mi Yue is a very strong woman.
The great difference between Conteng and Ying Ji is caused by their mothers' different educational methods. This also indirectly shows that, whether in ancient or modern times, education can never be just obedience and doting on children.