Early childhood refers to children aged 3-6. In fact, sex education started at the age of two.

Children at this stage like to play some "sex games", such as kissing, getting married, having children, touching the reproductive organs and so on.

If parents see this situation, don't feel nervous. Children play these games just to imitate what they see in life. Don't rudely interrupt them.

If the child finds touching other parts, parents will not care. Touching only this part will immediately make parents nervous, and children will deliberately touch that part often to attract parents' attention.

At this time, parents can find ways to divert their children's attention, such as hide-and-seek games, instead of deliberately interrupting them.

For children who can understand, you can tell them that some parts of the body, such as the chest and reproductive organs, are invisible and intangible to others.

Parents should patiently instill the concept of self-protection in their children, and if someone touches these parts, they should tell their parents.

Children over 3 years old can sleep in separate beds with their parents. If you are old, try to sleep in separate rooms if possible to avoid the negative impact of husband and wife life on children.

Even if you can't live separately, you should hang a curtain.

2. Children aged 6-9 in childhood

In the incubation period of sexual desire, they are easily influenced by others or the media and come into contact with some incorrect sexual information. At this time, they need the help of their parents to understand gender roles.

The best way for parents to educate their children is to take the opportunity to educate their children when there are intimate scenes on TV or when there are short stories in newspapers.

At this time, parents are bound to become the best sex education instructors in the process of children's growth. Once a child has doubts about sex, the child's first thought is to ask his parents, not others.

At this stage, parents should change their traditional thinking, seriously answer their children's questions about sex and win their trust.

Once children are found to be exposed to pornographic videos, don't abuse them, but guide them to read the correct sex education books.

3. adolescence

In children's adolescence, although the school will offer some special courses, parents can't stop educating their children about sex. On the contrary, they need to pay more attention to helping their children through adolescence.

The age of puberty is about 10 for girls and 12 for boys. Usually, parents pay more attention to girls and tend to ignore boys, mainly because girls have obvious signs of puberty, such as menstrual cramps, while boys are not so obvious. However, boys will also have nocturnal emission, voice change and long Adam's apple.

Parents should pay attention to that adolescent boys will start masturbating. At this stage, parents can guide their children to release energy in other ways, such as exercise, to reduce the number of masturbations. Don't wear too tight clothes for adolescent children, such as jeans. It is recommended to wear loose pants.

Parents can give their children more hugs, patting their shoulders and other actions, and give them some intimate touches, which will help alleviate the anxiety caused by physical and mental changes in adolescence.

Psychological enlightenment psychologists believe that sex education is by no means dispensable, and its influence will accompany the child's life. As Freud said, your situation today is related to your childhood.

Parents should be aware of the importance of sex education for their children, and must abandon the "transsexual" attitude in the past and turn rejection into persuasion. Even if you are embarrassed, you are not allowed to avoid this important question.