There must be such a child around you, who is very handsome (sorry, because I am a woman, so there are more men to observe), but you can't understand, handsome, tall, good at learning, practical and not confident. Then this person certainly didn't live with his parents for a long time when he was a child. Lack of parents' love will lead to lack of self-confidence.
A person's temperament can basically guess his family and the social impact it brings. Like a poor family. Surrounded by him is a very bad environment, the bottom environment. If he is a wealthy family, the social environment around him is rich enough to experience a high-end life and go wherever he wants. If you want to see the outside world, go and see the outside world. So I think the social environment is greatly influenced by the family environment. In families with a monthly income of less than 10 thousand, most children play with children with similar monthly income. For families with a monthly income of 65,438+10,000, children go to various learning places. If parents are conscious (most parents are conscious), let children learn more. The social environment is very different from poor children. Their only connection may be at school.
Speaking of family influence, I have to talk about the bears in society. You think you're the only one who hates Xiong Haizi? Children with quality among their peers hate Xiong Haizi more. Will a polite child like a child who litters and cuts in line at will? No, I will despise it. Then the behavior habits brought about by these family influences have made it impossible for many people from different classes to play together. Many etiquette, parents are not aware of. How to educate children?
Let me talk about school education. At present, China's school education is mainly about imparting knowledge, and rarely teaching you to be the person you like. And it has something to do with the teacher. This has to talk about the different qualities of teachers (if the subject's problem is homework, don't mention it, lest your teacher be sad). A good teacher has a profound influence on students. But there are too few good teachers. Most teachers have no sense of responsibility. To tell the truth, a person with a lofty mind will basically not be a primary school or junior high school teacher, which has a great influence on students' personality during this period.
Don't talk about the teacher's personal problems. Let's analyze teachers in different regions. You are not stupid enough to think that all teachers are the same now. Is a teacher who graduated from Beijing Normal University or East China Normal University the same as a teacher who graduated from a local town normal college in terms of knowledge and values? Somebody else's physics teacher teaches live online, and it costs 10 thousand yuan an hour. You think your knowledge level is different from that of your physics teacher. Smart teachers point out the key points in a few words, while poor teachers. . . Okay, I won't talk about it.
Throw away the instability of school education and the dependence of social education on family. I still think family education is the most important.
I'm too tired to fight. Handmade, I haven't been back to Baidu for many years. I see. . .