First, communicate with children ideologically. It's normal that children don't want to sleep at home and go to their boyfriends' house to play. However, as parents, we should sit down and communicate with our children. We should not quarrel with our children in a hurry, or force them not to go out, which will only be counterproductive!
"When the fruit is not ripe, it tastes green." Children will certainly understand this truth when they go to college, so it is the most basic truth for parents to tell their children when to do something. It is suggested that parents and children communicate well and let their children understand through their own examples that the main purpose of children at this stage is to learn and fall in love, but they should not be too casual and ruin their reputation before determining the relationship or marriage!
Second, guide through the children's peers. "Persuasion between peers is the most effective." Children don't want to stay at home, maybe they don't have friends with the same language, so they want to go to their boyfriend's house to play. At this time, children's peers can communicate with their children. Perhaps under the persuasion of peers, children's thoughts will change, so that children will become more positive and sunny.
Before, there was a child in our family who just didn't come home all day and all night. Later, I took her on a trip to experience the wonderful world. Through my own personal experience, children also understand what life will be like in the future if they don't work hard and study. After I went back, I changed a lot and began to become more optimistic.
Many times, it is not that the child's thoughts and behaviors are extreme, but that no one can communicate with her or make a correct demonstration for her, which eventually leads to the child's confusion. If someone guides, children will naturally make the right choice and become better themselves.