After reading the book "Tell Children You Are Great" carefully, I was deeply shocked. This book tells about the depressing learning environment of children. Parents lack trust in their children. In the long-term "noisy, pressing and pushing" environment, children lose their happiness and self-confidence. When they want to do something, they will first think of failure and think that they can't do it. They don't have the courage to try, and they don't have the motivation to believe. Smart parents want their children to grow into eagles to cope with complex life. Our responsibility is to help, support and encourage our children and give them the necessary protection. Tell your children that you are great. This book is the first and most powerful testimony to help them build their self-confidence and make them successful. Although this book is written for parents, it also gives us a deep inspiration in education.

In the process of educating children, we should do the following:

First, respect the child's personality.

Respect for personality is regardless of time and place, and it doesn't matter whether there are many advantages or disadvantages. If a teacher respects a child when he has achievements, but does not respect him when he has problems, it is wrong to praise or criticize him at will. Teachers might as well think about how they want others to treat them when they have shortcomings and mistakes. Children are eager for respect, first of all, the respect of parents and teachers. If you respect your children, you can't say anything degrading and self-respecting to your children.

Second, always encourage children and help them succeed.

Any small success can boost people's confidence. A child, when he has written a word, done a question correctly and answered the teacher's question correctly, will have the joy of achievement and expect himself to do better next time. As a teacher, it is not so difficult to help a child and let him have a little successful experience. This is to think big and start small. In a small success, accumulate a little self-confidence.

Love children, respect children, understand children, understand children like Lu Qin, let children live in a "you can do it" environment, let children slowly change from negative to positive, and change "you can do it" into "I can do it". Let children experience the feeling of success, build self-confidence and reshape the ideal palace.

Son, you are great. After reading (2)

Today's society is an era of fierce competition. Being a child today is really tiring, being a parent today is really annoying, and being a teacher today is really difficult. As a parent and a primary school teacher, I also have real feelings. After reading the book "Tell your children that you are great" by my "intimate sister" Lu Qin, I realized that the so-called tiredness, annoyance and difficulty are all due to the lack of a sentence: "You are great, my child!" This compliment.

People often say that a good boy likes to brag. Children in the world have different looks and personalities, but one thing is the same-they are eager to hear applause! This is the child. You say he can, he can; If you say he can't, he can't. You cheer for him, he will give you one surprise after another, you say he is not as good as others, and he will prove that he is really stupid with his actions. That's how adults shape children with language.

"Son, you are great!" A heartfelt compliment, this is the beginning of appreciation, and I think this is exactly what we educators call "appreciation education." However, appreciation is not just a compliment or just a good word. Appreciation requires learning. Only a moderate appreciation can achieve real results. As parents, we need to learn to appreciate, and as teachers, we need to learn to appreciate. Parents have only one child, and teachers have dozens of children. They need to learn from appreciation and let their children grow up healthily and happily.

Of course, to appreciate children is to appreciate their strengths, strengths and progress, not to ignore their shortcomings and weaknesses. The problems that should be pointed out should be pointed out in time, the critical problems should be criticized in time, and the problems that should be stopped should be stopped in time. This cannot be ambiguous. However, what should be firmly engraved in our hearts are "respect" and "tolerance", and we should give timely criticism with respect and tolerance. We should remember that students are not the simple products of teachers' labor, and our education is the exchange of hearts. Only by winning the trust and love of students can our education and teaching work achieve better results. Please also remember to criticize and educate your students in a separate environment and praise your students in public.

There is such a true story:

A naughty, undisciplined student, who doesn't like to study and gives his teacher a headache, is arranged in a special corner-where the front door is against the wall. Then there was a new head teacher. She seems to like the little boy sitting in the corner very much. She always touches the child's head when she goes out recently. Children begin to like the new head teacher, eager for her to come to class every day, and her grades will get better every day. Many years have passed, and the child is now a student of a famous university. Speaking of the teacher of that year, he was still crying for you and said affectionately, "She is my sun, and she makes my front shine." .

A word, an action, such a simple heart-to-heart dialogue is enough to change a person's life! Isn't this worth pondering? Our own emotional charm is an important factor in the success of education.

As a teacher who has worked for more than ten years, I still have many shortcomings in my work, but the application of appreciation education has won the trust and love of children and made my teaching work more and more smooth. I also firmly believe that as long as we persist in appreciation education, children will be trained into mentally healthy talents.

The evaluation of parents and teachers has a vital influence on children's growth. For children, it is not important to have talent, but to have interest and confidence. How important self-confidence is to children. Some people say that self-confidence is a half-life, but I want to say that self-confidence is the master of one's destiny. What will happen to a child who is constantly criticized? Frustrated, demoralized, inferior and incompetent, I always feel that I will fail forever and accomplish nothing. We have such an example around us. Think about what we look like every time we are criticized.

So, boldly cheer for your children and your students! Don't look at him Please believe that your children and your students will work miracles!

Son, you are great. What do you think after reading (3)

Bernard Shaw famously said, "A confident person can turn smallness into greatness and mediocrity into magic". For every student, confidence is like a pair of wings, which can make him fly higher and faster. Without these wings, he may wander on the ground forever and never see the beautiful scenery ahead. The book "Tell Your Children You Are Great" written by my bosom sister Lu Qin is the most powerful testimony to help children build their self-confidence and let them take the first step to success. As a father and teacher, I was deeply attracted and moved by the contents of the book.

Having a confident and sunny attitude is extremely important for children's life growth. Teacher Lu Qin once gave an example: Napoleon had everything that ordinary people longed for: glory, power and wealth, but he said, "I have never had a happy day in my life." Helen Keller, a blind, deaf and dumb woman, said, "I find life so beautiful." It can be seen that the happiness of life depends more on our mood, attitude and emotions. Teacher Lu Qin has come into contact with thousands of children, and what she says to them most is three sentences of a happy life: "Great!" "I can do it!" "Do you have any difficulty? Let me help you! " -change your mood, change the world, change your attitude, change your destiny, change your mood and change your life. In the long journey of life, everyone will face all kinds of situations and setbacks. Let children form a happy and bright sunshine mentality from an early age, and then build their own beautiful life healthily and calmly, and strive to serve the society and achieve happiness throughout their lives.

You say he can, he can; If you say he can't, he can't. You cheer for him, and he will give you one surprise after another; You say he is inferior to others, and he will prove that he is really stupid with his actions. That's how adults shape children with language.

A philosopher once said: sowing behavior, harvesting habits; Sowing habits, harvesting character; Sow character and reap fate. In order to let children actively create a happy life, they must be encouraged to start from small things and cultivate self-confidence and courage. Children who believe in their "best" will not be afraid of difficulties, have confidence in the future and bravely meet challenges. Children who are not confident are timid and hesitant. I must be a coward when I grow up.

Teacher Lu Qin has a saying: If we want our children to be happy all their lives instead of working hard to earn wealth for them, we should cultivate them to have a positive attitude and always look at the world with a smile. Yes, giving children more encouragement and confidence is more important than anything else. A confident child has a healthy and happy mind.

"You are great" should actually be a sentence that we parents often need to say. Between reading, I often think of my classroom. Give them a little encouragement. Without "You are great", they will feel that they are really "the best". Children lack self-confidence, how can they not feel afraid of difficulties? How can we boldly express and enthusiastically create a better life?

Tell the children that you are great! Reading this book, I believe both teachers and parents can get some inspiration from this sentence.