First, relatives are good and their strength is good; What you hate is what you want to go. If you get hurt, you will be worried; Moral harm brings shame to parents.
Explanation: parents must try their best to prepare everything they like; Things that parents hate must be carefully removed. If the body is injured, it will worry parents; If your character is tainted, you will make your parents feel ashamed.
Story: mother-in-law tattoo
Yue Fei's family was poor when he was a child. His mother taught him to write on the beach with branches and encouraged him to exercise well. Yue Fei is eager to learn, not only knowledgeable, but also trained a good martial arts and became a talented person with both civil and military skills. At that time, the nomads from the north often attacked the Central Plains. The mother encouraged her son to serve the country, but stabbed him in the back? Loyal to the country? Four big characters. The filial Yue Fei did not dare to forget his mother's teachings, and those four words became the creed that Yue Fei followed all his life. Yue Fei will think of it every time he fights? Loyal to the country? Four characters, because of their bravery and good fighting skills, have won many battles and made great contributions, and their reputation has spread all over the country. Yue Fei also established an army with strict discipline and heroic resistance to gold. Yue Jiajun? . ? Yue Jiajun? All soldiers strictly abide by discipline, preferring to endure hunger by themselves rather than disturb the people; At night, if you live in people's homes or shops, they will get up at dawn, clean up for the host, wash the dishes and leave. ? Yue Jiajun? 8 jin j's morale is on edge. The commander-in-chief of the nomads from the army sighed:? It's easy to shake the mountain, but difficult to shake the Yuegujun! ? In a battle between Yuegujun and 8 jin j, when Yuegujun was only forty-five miles away from the nomads from the base camp, and it was almost finished, the emperor Zhao Gou was afraid that Yue Fei would take back the original emperor after defeating the nomads from the army, and his throne would be lost, so he and the traitor Qin Gui repeatedly issued twelve gold medals and ordered Yue Fei to withdraw. Qin Gui also falsely accused Yue Fei of rebellion and put him in prison. No need? The charge of poisoning Yue Fei. Yue Fei was only thirty-nine years old when he died. He remembered his mother's teaching all his life, even at the moment of his death? Loyal to the country? Four words.
Second, dear me, why is filial piety so difficult? Love me, Xiao Fangxian. I had a kiss, and my advice made me more. I like my color and my voice.
Explanation: When my parents love me and care about me, what difficulties do I have in honoring my parents? When my parents don't like me, I can still be filial. This is the real filial piety. When parents are at fault, children should persuade them to correct them, and they must be gentle when they persuade them, and their voices must be soft when they speak.
Story: Xue Bao is filial to his stepmother.
In ancient times, there was a man named Xue Bao. His mother died when he was very young. His stepmother treats him badly, often makes him hungry and cold, and often beats him. As a last resort, Xuebao had to obey his parents' wishes and live alone in another house. He cleans the house for his parents as usual every morning. Even so, his parents couldn't accept him and drove him away. So Xue Bao went to live in another hut outside the house, and there was no resentment in his heart. I still go home every morning to greet my parents and make my bed at night. I am cautious and filial, and my service is polite and never stops. After about a year, Xuebao's filial piety finally touched his parents, so he let Xuebao go home to live. From then on, the whole family lived in harmony and shared family happiness. After his parents died, Xue Bao's younger brother asked to divide the property and live separately. Xue Bao had no choice but to divide the property equally. He said:? Handmaiden are old, you can't boss them around, just let them follow me! ? He also reserved barren land and abandoned houses for himself. I only choose worn-out clothes and furniture. After the separation of brothers, Xue Bao's younger brother was not good at management, lived a luxurious life and his property was destroyed several times. Xue Bao cares about enlightenment and has used all his money and things to help his younger brother many times. The story of Xue Bao's filial piety to his parents and love for his younger brother soon spread throughout the countryside. Later, he was recommended and appointed as an assistant.
Third, brothers are friends, brothers respect each other, brothers live in harmony, and filial piety is in the middle. Property is light, why complain? Words last forever, but anger disappears.
Note: As a brother, be kind to your younger brother. As a younger brother, you should respect your brother and live in harmony. This is also a filial piety to parents. You look down on property when you get along with people. Where can there be resentment? When talking to people, be patient with them, and resentment will naturally disappear.
Story: Kong Rong Jean Pear.
There was a child named Kong Rong in the Han Dynasty, who was very clever. Kong Rong has five brothers and one younger brother. One day, I ate pears at home. A plate of pears was placed in front of everyone, and my brother asked Kong Rong to take it first. Guess what pears Kong Rong brought? He didn't choose the good one, not the big one, only the smallest one. Dad was very happy to see it: although the child is only four years old, he is really sensible. He deliberately asked Kong Rong:? There are so many pears, you must take them away first. Why not take the big one and only the smallest one? Kong Rong replied? I am young, so I should take a small one and leave the big one for my brother. ? Father asked him again:? Don't you have a brother? Isn't he younger than you? Kong Rong said? I am older than my brother. I'm my brother. I should leave the old ones for my brother. ? You see, how well Kong Rong speaks. Father smiled. Good boy, good boy, really good boy. ? Kong Rong is only four years old. He knows how to make pears. Make way for brothers, make way for brothers. Everyone praised him.