I don't like the light rain in math, but I hate math even more after I entered junior high school. Every exam, other grades are not bad, only math scores fluctuate above and below the passing line. Xiaoyu was scolded by the teacher because of her poor math performance. After Xiao Yu's mother went to school, she also explained to the teacher that Xiao Yu was not good at math since she was a child. The method given by the teacher is: let the children not only recite mathematical concepts every day, but also recite examples, saying that many of their students used to be like Xiaoyu, and later they made rapid progress in mathematics through their own methods. Xiao Yu's mother heard the teacher say these words, and immediately followed them when she got home. At first, it had some effect. However, after a long time, when children are more tired of this method, not only their math scores have plummeted, but also their scores in other subjects have been declining.

1. Instill education

To put it bluntly, indoctrination education is what people often call "cramming education". Fill all the knowledge into the child's brain, regardless of whether the child can absorb and digest it. You know, people's intelligence, like their bodies, will be difficult to absorb if they exceed a certain speed. Teaching children too much knowledge is only a short stay for them. Children not only can't remember knowledge, but also have a deep boredom with learning.

2. Experience experiential education

Psychologically speaking, this kind of education is more out of children's subjective consciousness. Children want to know new things, so they will experience them.

3. Practice makes true knowledge

"Practice is the only criterion for testing truth." Only by giving children enough time to practice by themselves can they truly understand knowledge. And in the process of experience, children are constantly improving their ideas, learning more knowledge and making the experience more perfect.

In fact, in life, most people still recognize indoctrination education. In fact, having such knowledge is inseparable from our current examination system. Let children learn knowledge, more to cope with the current exam, rather than considering how much children can absorb. Indoctrination education is only effective in the short term, but it needs experiential education to achieve long-term results.

1. Let children study happily.

As long as the child feels happy, it is good. Experiential education will make children regard the acquisition of knowledge as a happy thing, rather than being very upset. In fact, children's psychology is much simpler than that of adults, especially in acquiring knowledge. Only by making children feel happy can it be more in line with their characteristics. And if you want to achieve your goal through "indoctrination", it is undoubtedly a kind of torture for children.

2. Stimulate children's interest in learning.

Around us, it is not difficult to find many children's "mantra", "Learning is for parents, and parents will only be happy if they study by themselves." From this perspective, most children's learning is not out of their own subjective consciousness. Experiential education can stimulate children's interest in learning and turn passivity into initiative. Through children's own experience, let children actively explore knowledge and establish their own "knowledge building".

In fact, all parents and teachers want their children to become talents. But at the same time, we should also see the disadvantages that "indoctrination education" brings to children. Such education will not only make children more tired of learning, but even their interest in self-education will disappear. Therefore, it is more important to give children the initiative to learn and let them experience and explore for themselves.

1. Guide children to observe.

Rodin, a famous French artist, said: "The world is not short of beauty, but the eyes that find it." Therefore, educating children to learn to observe is the first step. Children will mobilize various senses to observe when observing, so children will know more new things and gain more new knowledge in this process.

2. Let children discover knowledge by themselves.

The simple memory of "rote memorization" is the simplest way to remember and the easiest to forget. Maybe the child just remembers and forgets the knowledge in a few days. And if children are allowed to discover knowledge by themselves, the knowledge they understand will become the most precious wealth in their lives. A child who is good at discovering knowledge will develop the habit of learning and solving problems. Only in this way can children develop good study habits.

3. The indispensable physical education class.

In life, we will find that physical education is indispensable both when children are young and in classroom teaching. Compared with abstract and difficult knowledge, physical education will make children realize new things more vividly and intuitively. Such education will undoubtedly leave a more intuitive impression in children's minds.

In short, there are always some children who have not done well in exams since childhood, even in the college entrance examination, but when they enter the university, their grades suddenly advance by leaps and bounds. This is quite different from most people's views. In fact, in addition to "epiphany", this has played a great role in children, and children have made various preparations through various experiences before. When children realize the real opportunity, they will devote themselves wholeheartedly to success.

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