Children don't do homework, don't sleep, just want to watch TV. Faced with this situation, parents really have a headache. The child is disobedient and can't beat him. The post-90s couple came up with such a way to "physically punish" their children. Don't you like watching TV? Then let you see enough at a time, completely satisfy you, don't sleep tonight, just watch it here for one night.
In fact, the purpose of doing this is to let children really remember this lesson. Does it really work? Short-term is bound to be effective, very effective, and many netizens agree.
This kind of education is actually a punitive education. Corporal punishment of students is not advocated now. Maybe people will say that this is not corporal punishment. First of all, let's understand the definition of corporal punishment:
Of course, we are talking about teachers here, but in the process of education, no matter what role, we can't educate children by corporal punishment or corporal punishment in disguise. Therefore, according to the definition of corporal punishment, it is not only physical punishment, but also psychological punishment. This way of "showing you enough at once" has actually caused a great psychological blow to children. If many things are done in this way, it is hard to imagine what kind of personality children will form when they grow up.
There are actually many positive educational methods for children's education:
First of all, parents should not set a negative example for their children.
Parents are the first teachers in children's life, and children in childhood have a strong imitation ability, which is easily influenced by family environment and parents' education methods. In order to reduce children's attacks on others, parents must change the way of education and resolutely put an end to corporal punishment of children.
Second, communicate with children more.
While parents are busy with their work, they must also take as much time as possible to get to know their children, communicate with them, and try to fully grasp their performance at school and at home. In this way, once the child is really disobedient, parents can understand how to guide the child instead of beating and scolding the child to solve the problem. No matter how young children are, parents should treat them equally. Some rude parents are always used to beating and cursing their children, which can easily make them feel disgusted with their parents. In this way, children will not be understood by their parents, and the gap between them will become deeper and deeper. Therefore, parents should communicate with their children more and let them know that their parents understand him. In this way, children can also feel the love and care of their parents, thus actively correcting their mistakes.
Third, be more reasonable with your children.
When children are disobedient or willful, parents should not only communicate with their children in daily life, but also pay attention to their own educational methods. Parents should reason with their children more, and they can educate sensible children without beating and cursing. Parents should be more reasonable with their children in real life, let them have empathy, and let them learn to put themselves in their own shoes and realize their own shortcomings. As it turns out, this is also a video recently circulated on the Internet. A post-90s couple educated their children and punished them for watching TV all night. The child is sleepy and sleeps on the sofa. Parents take turns to wake up the child and continue watching TV!
Children don't do homework, don't sleep, just want to watch TV. Faced with this situation, parents really have a headache. The child is disobedient and can't beat him. The post-90s couple came up with such a way to "physically punish" their children. Don't you like watching TV? Then let you see enough at a time, completely satisfy you, don't sleep tonight, just watch it here for one night.
In fact, the purpose of doing this is to let children really remember this lesson. Does it really work? Short-term is bound to be effective, very effective, and many netizens agree.
This kind of education is actually a punitive education. Corporal punishment of students is not advocated now. Maybe people will say that this is not corporal punishment. First of all, let's understand the definition of corporal punishment:
Of course, we are talking about teachers here, but in the process of education, no matter what role, we can't educate children by corporal punishment or corporal punishment in disguise. Therefore, according to the definition of corporal punishment, it is not only physical punishment, but also psychological punishment. This way of "showing you enough at once" has actually caused a great psychological blow to children. If many things are done in this way, it is hard to imagine what kind of personality children will form when they grow up.
There are actually many positive educational methods for children's education:
First of all, parents should not set a negative example for their children.
Parents are the first teachers in children's life, and children in childhood have a strong imitation ability, which is easily influenced by family environment and parents' education methods. In order to reduce children's attacks on others, parents must change the way of education and resolutely put an end to corporal punishment of children.
Second, communicate with children more.
While parents are busy with their work, they must also take as much time as possible to get to know their children, communicate with them, and try to fully grasp their performance at school and at home. In this way, once the child is really disobedient, parents can understand how to guide the child instead of beating and scolding the child to solve the problem. No matter how young children are, parents should treat them equally. Some rude parents are always used to beating and cursing their children, which can easily make children feel disgusted with their parents. In this way, children will not be understood by their parents, and the gap between them will become deeper and deeper. Therefore, parents should communicate with their children more and let them know that their parents understand him. In this way, children can also feel the love and care of their parents, thus actively correcting their mistakes.
Third, be more reasonable with your children.
When children are disobedient or willful, parents should not only communicate with their children in daily life, but also pay attention to their own educational methods. Parents should reason with their children more, and they can educate sensible children without beating and cursing. Parents should be more reasonable with their children in real life, let them have empathy, and let them learn to put themselves in their own shoes and realize their own shortcomings. Facts have proved that children are more likely to accept their parents' opinions spontaneously and the educational effect is more ideal.
Fourth, use appreciation education instead of corporal punishment of children.
Educate children to appreciate and let them feel their parents' unconditional love for them. Even if children find it difficult to change bad habits, they will gradually restrain their bad behaviors in order to love their parents.
What do you think of this kind of "seeing enough at once" teaching?