However, in addition to the language guidance of parents, the words and manners in daily life will also affect children and will be imitated inadvertently. After all, children are the shadow of their parents.

The more the mother can "tolerate" these three things, the better the baby will be educated. It is only a matter of time before she can make a difference. Even if she knows the law of children's growth, parents should not let it go. If they feel that there is no need for extra intervention, just let it go. But in fact, if education is so simple, how can the gap between children be so big?

Forbearance: But interfere with children more. In daily life, some mothers always feel anxious, such as letting their children eat by themselves. When children can't master this skill at first, they always eat everywhere, not only with their mouths, but also with every organ of their bodies.

At this time, many mothers will interfere with their children and prevent them from eating by themselves. It may be because the children eat everywhere, or it may be because the mother wants to save time. The end result is that children compromise themselves because they are afraid of their mothers.

Two forbearance: don't vent negative emotions on children. Every time a child makes a mistake, the mother gets angry. She thinks that the child has committed a terrible disaster, and she will turn out all the mistakes made by the child before, make a hullabaloo about at the child, and vent her inner dissatisfaction and negative emotions.

At this time, even if the mother doesn't say anything, the child is very scared. They are either afraid to realize their mistakes or afraid that their mother will punish them. After all, children know their mothers very well.

After the mother punished the child, the child seemed to be a lot more clever on the surface, but in fact, the suspicion that the child was beaten into a confession was not ruled out. And children will bear a grudge and plant the seeds of hatred.

Three forbearance: Don't "monitor" children excessively. Some mothers are too strict with their children's discipline and must do it according to their own ideas. There are restrictions on doing homework, eating and even going to the toilet. As long as children stay at home, they must live under their mother's nose.

In this way, not only the mother will lose herself, but also the child will feel very painful. Is she a prisoner? I need my mother to supervise me like this. Why can't I have my own ideas and do what I want?