Second, concretization: Can you tell me how he is rebellious at ordinary times?

Third, to explore the causes of the problem, specific analysis:

A kind of overrun rebellion: refers to the escape response after over-accepting some stimulus. Like nagging.

Solution: Reduce the intensity and frequency of accusations or worries.

B Self-value protection: When people's self-value is threatened by external persuasion or influence, they will protect their self-value and respond to the external influence. For example: idolization.

Solution: Respect children's hobbies and friends, and don't belittle them at will.

C forbidden fruit reversal: the prohibition with insufficient reasons will stimulate people's stronger desire to explore. Smoking is not allowed.

Solution: explain the full reason before the ban.

D. Autonomous rebellion: When teenagers want to make independent decisions and control their own lives and studies, their autonomy is blocked, resulting in confrontational behavior. For example, dressing up

Solution: Give children a certain choice space and give them the power to make decisions about what they can. In short, parents should realize that children have grown up and started to change. Parents' practices and attitudes towards their children should also be changed accordingly. Respect and timely support and help can guide children to learn actively.