The law of human development proves that parents are exquisite designers who create this beautiful home. From this perspective, the perfection of a home is decided by parents and children. Generation after generation, parents carefully plan their beautiful homes and give their children a peaceful life. Although every parent loves their children, if they love in the right direction, their children may succeed, otherwise even the cleverest children will go astray.
There is a mother who teaches her children in a special way. Once my son lost his temper and threw a toy at his mother. The mother asked when she found her son in a temper. Why did the son hit his mother with a toy? ? The son said angrily,? Bad mother, you won't let me look at my mobile phone. ?
The mother knew the reason why her son lost his temper, but instead of reprimanding him, she said quietly, well, you don't like your toys, do you? Want to give it to me? ?
Come on, son, okay? I didn't. ?
Mom said,? Then why did you throw it to me? ?
The son said,? Am I angry?
Mom asked,? Should you throw toys at me when you are angry? Do you want to hurt me or don't want toys? ?
The son said,? I don't even want to. ?
The mother deliberately led her son to know that it was wrong to lose his temper. Mother said: It's none of your business. I'll take it as a gift. I'll take it. ?
As soon as the son heard that his mother wanted to collect toys, he quickly said, no, no, you give me back the toys. ?
Mom said firmly, I won't pay you back unless you apologize for your behavior. ?
The son was still a little wronged and said, mom, I'm sorry. ?
Seeing her son's reluctance, the mother asked, Are you apologizing for getting the toy back or for your behavior? ?
The son bowed his head and was speechless. Mother hinted at her son again? Think for yourself. ?
My son was very determined to see his mother, so he said to her devoutly. Mom, I'm sorry. I was wrong just now. I shouldn't have lost my temper and dropped my toy on my mother. ?
When the mother heard her son's sincere apology, she didn't return the toy to her son immediately. Instead, she held her son in her arms and patiently said, Listen, son, unless you can defend yourself when you are hurt, you must never hurt others in any way at other times, okay? ?
The son replied? I know, mom. ?
Mother said in a comforting tone,? It won't happen again. Mother kept her promise and returned the toy to you, but you should also remember your words. There are many ways to vent your emotions, but don't hurt others. ?
The son knew from the bottom of his heart that he was wrong and assured his mother? Ok, mom, I won't lose my temper with others in the future. ?
In fact, smart parents start from small things. Children love to lose their temper when they are young, which is a coquetry. Once parents are not properly educated, children will go astray.
In the long process of a person's growth, parents are ladders to heaven, and home is a greenhouse for breeding. If the temperature is right, it will naturally break through the cocoon. If the temperature is wrong, beautiful life will be lost.
Life is like this. After all, a person's success is attributed to having a warm family and hardworking parents. In this advanced society, it is difficult to be a parent, and it is even more difficult to be a good parent. To be a good parent, we need to study and communicate constantly, accumulate more educational methods and reach the highest ideal state.
These are just the personal opinions of parents who are learning to take care of their children. I hope it helps you. If you have any better suggestions, please leave a message in the comments section, and let's grow together.