Clever 100 trick, know children better!
The People's Daily published 100 tips on family education for parents' reference.
First, how to let children take the initiative to do homework
1. Don't do your homework too long.
2. Enlarge the advantages of children
Don't learn too fast.
4. Let the children play enough first.
5. Change the learning environment frequently.
6. Make a homework schedule.
7. Let children do their homework first.
8. Let the children draw lots by themselves.
9. Don't judge the teacher in front of the children.
Second, how to make children more sensible
1. Praise the child through the mouth of a third party
2. Communicate with children by letter or diary.
Speak in a gentle tone
4. Let the children know what is wrong in time.
5. Clever diversion of children's attention
Blend in with children
7. Say one thing at a time.
8. Always express your trust in your child.
9. only make constructive comments
10. Don't blame the frustrated children.
1 1. Correct the child's bad life details in time.
12. use praise to affirm the child.
Third, how to let children learn to manage emotions
1. Guide children to vent their dissatisfaction
2. Let children have the right to choose their own multiple-choice items.
3. Listen carefully to the child's dissatisfaction.
Don't let busy work be your excuse.
5. Deal with children's unreasonable demands in a democratic way.
6. Retreat to advanced persuasion education
7. Respond to wayward attitudes with practical advantages and disadvantages.
8. Pay attention to guiding children's herd mentality.
9. Give your child a space to vent.
Fourth, how to make children love learning
1. Tell more inspirational stories to children.
2. Use recent learning goals to motivate children.
It is also important to distract children.
4. Get rid of the habit of children having a fever for three minutes.
5. Stimulate appetite to promote learning
6. Teach children to learn to preserve their physical strength
7. Proper exercise can make children's brains more flexible.
8. Use provocation to promote children's learning
9. Use crisis awareness to improve learning efficiency
10. Keep the learning content fresh
1 1. Adjust the reading atmosphere with different subjects.
12. Deliberately change children's learning environment
5. How to eliminate children's learning tension?
1. Being with children makes him feel safe.
2. Use an optimistic and humorous tone to dilute the child's failure.
Suppose there are 30 days in a month
4. Pay more attention to the importance of children's psychological construction.
5. Breathing can regulate children's mood.
6. deliberately put my foot in my mouth in front of the baby
7. Mascots stabilize the mood
8. Relieve your worries and tensions and vent them quickly.
Sixth, how to make children concentrate?
1. Make irregular segmentation schedule.
2. The magical use of alarm clock
3. Establish a flexible homework schedule
4. Get rid of the lax consciousness of "anytime"
5. Assign children to do housework consciously and moderately.
6. Let children guess questions and improve their attention in the exam.
7. Warm-up is essential.
8. Use "quantity" to drive forward
Seven, how to make children turn negative into positive?
1. Find the internal causes of children's negativity.
2. Let children publicly announce their goals.
3. A strong body is the foundation of establishing a positive attitude.
Good living habits are the magic weapon to keep a positive attitude.
5. Let children develop the habit of reading aloud.
6. Let children form the good habit of getting to school early.
7. Let children make more positive and optimistic friends.
8. Let children develop the habit of writing big characters.
9. Encourage children to try more new things.
10. Let children develop a sense of responsibility for housework.
1 1. Don't always ask yes and no questions.
12. Cultivate children's attitude of active inquiry.
13. More praise and less criticism can make children more motivated.
Eight, how to cultivate children's self-confidence
1. Tell your child that he is priceless.
2. Let children do something easy to do
3. Weaken children's mistakes and highlight children's achievements
4. Pay attention to children's efforts
Praise the child first, then blame him.
6. Strengthen advantages and let children make continuous progress.
7. Build children's self-confidence with high goals.
8. Maintain a solid relationship of mutual trust with children.
9. Parents should not blame each other in front of their children.
10. Don't blame the child in front of a third party.
1 1. Let the children believe that the god of luck will come at any time.
12. Let children recall past achievements and rebuild their confidence.
Nine, how to eliminate children's inferiority complex
1. Affirmative statements should be used frequently.
2. Mothers should also talk to their children about skills.
3. Specific reasons to relieve the child's heart.
4. Use words to eradicate children's psychological barriers
5. Let children read biographies of great men in the world.
6. Let children face their peers with excellent performance objectively.
7. Cultivate children's special talents
8. Weaken children's inferiority complex by luck.
X. how to turn a child's shortcomings into advantages?
1. Use appropriate methods to make children face up to their shortcomings.
2. Distinguish between weakness and personality
3. Change the child's position and let him be self-disciplined.
4. I believe that the shortcomings and advantages of children are interchangeable.
5. The implied effect of using moderate punishment or threats.
6. Hint at your child's shortcomings by talking to yourself.
7. Don't use authority to suppress children's resistance.
8. Encourage children to do things beyond their ability.
9. Tell your children that you can do it.