The quality education of children is very important. As the child's first teacher, parents' words and deeds will deeply affect the child. In addition to providing comfortable living conditions, it is more important to guide children to become independent and self-reliant individuals.

♀? Cultivate the ability to resist setbacks

Parents should create suitable frustration situations so that children can gradually adapt and learn to cope. But remember, the difficulty should be moderate, otherwise repeated failures may hit children's self-confidence and lead to inferiority.

Discuss together

Parents can't sit idly by when their children encounter setbacks. We should discuss the reasons behind setbacks together and find ways to overcome difficulties for children. The key is to let children understand that setbacks are not terrible. What is really terrible is to escape and not face up to it.

Instill a sense of responsibility

Parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's sense of responsibility in their daily lives. Some studies have pointed out that children with a strong sense of responsibility are braver and actively face challenges; Children with weak sense of responsibility may be more timid and flustered.

♀? Cultivate sb's willpower

Parents can temper their children's perseverance by putting forward clear and practical requirements. The requirements should not be too high, lest the child lose confidence; Not too low, so as not to make children feel bored. Appropriate challenges can stimulate children's potential and help them grow up.